Skylemar Blog 2025

We’re READY!

After three weeks of training, practicing, teaching, role playing, setting up, unpacking, laughing, playing, connecting, moving, listening and learning…

 

Skylemar’s amazing counselors are ready to Welcome Home

the greatest guys in the whole wide world to the 04055!

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Welcome Home!

Now this was a DAY!  The weatherman said it was a rainy one in the 04055, but we didn’t mind.  Here at Camp Skylemar hundreds of happy smiles and warm hugs kept us feeling dry.

Planes were late and driving was slow, but oh, so worth it.  To see old friends jump into each other’s arms while 100+ counselors fully focused on welcoming the new guys was truly special.  Kinda like positive energy was what poured from the sky.

It was the Skylemar way, starting from the airport, bus or car.  In fact, one travel group created their own sort of baseball game using the silver numbered posts in an empty boarding area.  Sorry about that, Southwest….

Back at camp the games were in the Lodge (ping pong, pool, foosball) and Gym.  There was drawing and painting too.  The welcome signs were especially amazing.  A giant tarp filled the Rec Hall, with bins full of Legos dumped on top.  There’s nothing like Lego to keep boys and college students busy.

Dinner, by tradition, was heaping helpings of spaghetti with homemade meatballs, plus fresh, hot garlic bread… salad bar, too.

After a super fun Evening Activity to introduce the staff, all headed back to the cabins.  It was like coming home, because counselors had spent all of yesterday making beds and unpacking belongings.

As Shep made his first round of “good nights” for 2025, he found most tucked snug into beds.  Some were whispering and giggling, while others listened to the chapter books that their counselor read aloud.

Day is done, and all is well.  It was an exciting and exhausting one, and we can’t wait to see what tomorrow brings!

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And We’re Off!

“GOOD MORNING, CAMP SKYLEMAR!” roars one of the nation’s greatest sportscasters through the speaker in every cabin.  That’s the voice of the one and only George Simeon, producer and director of “The Morning Show”.  It’s sports radio at its finest, second in ratings only to The Rich Eisen Show.

The talent is spectacular and includes any Skylemar camper who wants to wake up extra early and shout out the national sports scores.  “Extra early” comes easy to the younger half of camp, while most counselors and older guys prefer to just listen to the show from the comfort of their cozy bed.

At 8:00,  the reveille bugle blows letting all know “it’s almost time to wake up”.  At 8:10, a second one signals that “it’s now time to get moving”.  The flag is raised at 8:30, then off to breakfast we go.

Today it was stacks of pancakes, eggs, oatmeal, cereal, yogurt, WOWBUTTER & jelly sandwiches and fruit.  There are four buffet lines, so all are fed in record time.  The 30+ directors and department heads enjoy doing the serving at every meal, giving each the opportunity to interact with every camper and staff member.  Music blasts and the vibe is high energy and lots of fun.

At the tables, the morning paper awaits.  It’s called the Daily Schedule, and it’s a complete step-by-step blueprint of how the day will look.  The schedule is carefully crafted by Program Director Barney and is so precise with specific staff assignments that it takes him about eight hours to create every day.  There are five assigned periods, two more choice ones, plus a big all-camp Evening Activity.

Once breakfast tables are cleared and after Shep’s Morning Announcements, all head back to the bunk for clean-up time.  Beds are made and each member of the “household” has a chore, like sweep, dustpan, sink, trash and the never-ever-popular…toilet.  Today was just a practice – inspection will start tomorrow.  The boys do give a try at cleaning, but for most it’s not exactly their “jam”.  Secret is that while they’re at First Period, our adored housekeepers come and re-do the bathrooms.  Thank you, Vicky, Mary and Betty!

Bunks 1-12 were at the Waterfront, with swim level evaluations, boat rides, kayaking and splashing about.  Meanwhile, others were at Baseball, Football, Basketball, Golf, Volleyball, Tennis, Lacrosse and Challenge Course.  In the afternoon there was Archery, Gaga, Soccer, Track & Field, Chilltop (crafts), Ping Pong, Yellowhorn (outdoor science) plus more.  In between it all was Rest Hour, when you hang in your bunk but hardly ever actually rest.  There’s Power Shower Hour too, and the name says it all.

Tonight’s Evening Activity was a weekly favorite – Campfire at the Ring of Champions.  It’s a night that’s upbeat and filled with laughter.  Lots of repeat-after-me songs with body actions, like “60’s Party”, “Aroostasha” (ask your son for a demo) and a hysterical sun dance skit.  Cory, with her beautiful voice, played “Wagon Wheel” on the guitar, and we all sang along. Nick explained the meaning of our motto, Cool2Care, and taught us the Skylemar sign of brotherhood: pointer and pinky finger up with other fingers down.  It means “I love you” in sign language. Powerful stuff for a bunch of guys.

A campfire just has to have s’mores of course.  Adventure Man came to visit too.  He taught the whole camp how to make a skivvy roll, and how the best fire starter is Fritos wrapped in a napkin.  Who knew?

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Decisions Decisions Decisions

In any one Skylemar day there’s a whole lot of learning going on.  Certainly, we learn how to build relationships and live together as a community.  We learn about what it takes to be a good friend, take care of ourselves and the importance of doing for others.

There’s lots of games that may be new to many, and the counselors are amazing at passing on the knowledge of their particular sport.  The boys discover that Skylemar’s a great place to take safe chances, like trying a new activity that you’ve never done before or even one that you’re not so great at.  That’s why the daily schedule is a combination of assigned periods, along with a couple of electives.  The boys are encouraged to give all a try.

The best kind of learning is fun, and that’s the world of Skylemar.  For example, this morning the camp welcomed Barnicus and Laundricus, the Warriors of Clean, with the traditional chant: “clap clap CLEAN…clap clap CLEAN…!”  The two warriors spoke about Cabin Inspection, and what it takes to keep things tidy.  Each bunk has a Job Wheel that moves one space to the right each day, assuring that everyone has a particular job while things are kept fair.  The Warriors called on Dr. Jeff to speak, who told us about what it takes to keep ourselves healthy.  This included how to do a self-tick check, which means paying attention to creases behind the knees and elbows, as well as our hair and ankles.  Ticks are rare here because of our robust eradication program, but it’s important to check, especially after a day hike off premises.

Shep did some teaching at his Porch Times.  That’s when your bunk takes a break from sports and instead, hangs with Shep and has a treat of Scooby Snacks.  He asks lots of questions (like “what was your favorite activity so far?”) and always has an important message to share.  Today’s was about the “golden rule”, and how to treat others.  If you hear someone being unkind to someone else, it’s your responsibility to stand up and say, “that’s not cool”.

Good decision-making is something else we learn about at Skylemar.  We talk about the big long-term decisions that matter most, but on a daily basis, it’s mostly about the little ones.  For example, each week we have Sunday Sign-up, when the kids decide which Clinic to choose for the week ahead.  The sign-up is a special event within itself, because the counselors do “commercials” advertising what they’re offering.  Just about all of the skits are hilarious and include dances and even some mind-blowing acrobatics.

For example, this week’s choices include: “Ninja Warrior Course & the Monster Challenge” at the Waterfront, “Sultans of Swing” through the trees at the Ropes Course, “MVP Hoops” Basketball, Snow Field Soccer, “Baseball  Basics” with Professor Good Coach, “Mad Science” at Yellowhorn, Beach Volleyball, “Cultures and Cuisines of South China” at the Sky Deck kitchen, “Koolio and his Ski Dock Llamas” Waterskiing, “Reading Pirates”, Poster-making and other Sea Dogs Merch at Chilltop, “Full Pads” Lacrosse, “Sail the Seven Seas”, “Ground Strokes Week” Tennis,  “Swingmasters” Golf, “Nitty-Gritty” Football, and Steal the Bacon.

Which would you choose?

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Brand New Day

 

Hot, humid and so much going on!  The schedule was jam-packed in all Divisions…Cubs: Bunks 1-3, Lions: Bunks 4-6, Tigers: Bunks 7-12, Freshmen:  Bunks 13-18, Sophomores:  Bunks 19-21, Juniors: Bunks 22-24, Seniors: Bunks 25-27, and Stars: Bunks 28-30.

Lots of firsts today as well.  Marcus W (Bunk 11) caught the first fish of the season, and it was a big one!

The Tigers took the first trip of the year, to Ice Skating in Bridgton.  That’s a town about 15 minutes away that has an ice rink located at a boarding school.  The cool air and slippery ice were perfect for such a steamy day.  Skating with Skyfriends is super fun, whether it’s your first time or one of many.

The premier play of the 2025 season is “Finding Nemo”.  Those of all ages were invited to try-out, and Drama Director Suzie had the difficult job of deciding who gets what part.  It’s tough because there’s a lot of talent in this house.

First bullseye at Archery!  Congrats to Henry Z!

Pontoon Party Night for lucky Bunks 1 and 2.  That’s when you take a cruise around Trickey Pond to see the other side of the lake, probably for the first time.  It’s a relaxing way to spend 7th Period, and the snack menu is appropriate…Swedish fish.

The camp-wide Scavenger Hunt was an awesome and high-energy Evening Activity.  Teams were made up of an older Bunk combined with a younger Bunk.  Each team had to unlock the clue at a particular location by finding specific items, answering trivia questions or performing a stunt.  For example, to unlock Mary Beth’s clue they had to bring her a pair of Nike sneakers, two blueberries and a pair of colorful sunglasses.  They had to dance the Macarena, show five different letters in ASL and figure out how many years Mary Beth has been a teacher.

One more first — the first Intercamp action of the season saw our 15U Soccer club play a trio of games in a round-robin tourney on the road, finishing with a win a loss and a tie.  Coach Spencer lauded the total team effort, led by 7 different goal scorers – well done boys!

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We’re Talkin’ Sky

If you want to be the coolest parent in the world, it’s important that you know what you’re talking about. Here’s a cheat-sheet of assorted “SkyLingo” to set you up for success:

C2C – Our motto, aka Cool2Care.

Sade’s Palace – It’s tomorrow night… lots of casino fun for those 16 and under!

Drip –  hand sanitizer…. you “drip” into buildings and before you eat.

Happy Hour – the sixth period of the day when Seniors and Stars have a choice of supervised “hanging out” time, or can head to the waterfront.

Foot Patrol – Counselors assigned throughout the day to make sure that everyone is where they’re supposed to be.

STB – Steal the Bacon.  It’s a game you’ll hear more about soon.

GACU – A weekly health check, that stands for Great American Clean-Up.

Looney Tunes – the seven counselor teams this year… Tweety Bird, Road Runner, Taz, Bugs Bunny, Foghorn Leghorn, Yosemite Sam and Road Runner.

S&C – Strength and Conditioning with Coach Tom

PSH – Power Shower Hour (self-explanatory)

SkyDeck – our fabulous outdoor kitchen for learning the culture, cooking and sampling of some amazing international cuisine,

Chilltop — the place for creativity… home to all kinds of arts and crafts.

Batcave – Luci and Cory’s office.

SkyPines – a fun-filled overnight stay in tents near the Sky II waterfront.

Polar Bear – pre-breakfast morning swim across the lake.

IC Day – Intercollegiate Day…. a one day event when our four college teams compete on and off the field

Color War – may not seem unique, but never make the mistake of adding an “S” and calling it “Color Wars”.  That might be ok at other places, but Skylemar guys take these intensely competitive days in August very seriously.  There’s no messing with this name.

DT, DRC, H, MB – Daniel Thomas, John D’Arcy, George Houghton and Mary Beth Fedirko.

Frog, Bones, Beags, Barney, etc., etc.– nicknames for those Staffers who’ve been here the longest.

The list goes on and on…!

 

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Sade’s Palace!

It’s the hottest ticket on the East Coast.  The waiting list is 364 days long — definitely the place to see and be seen.  Hours are limited, so you must be on time.

Leaving the Bellagio in the dust, it’s the one and only gambling casino where the house never wins.  It’s…

SADE’S PALACE!

You must be under 16 to enter.

No money?  No problem.  All gamblers get $100, plus unlimited credit.

Dine without reservations.  The menu is exclusive, with just one frozen specialty available in chocolate, vanilla or strawberry.

All the beer (root beer, that is)  you can drink, and it’s on the house.

Step right in and check out the star-filled gambling hall.  Sightings tonight included Mickey Mouse, the cast from the “Wizard of Oz”, Mario, Yoshi, Bill Nye, Belle and her Beast and an Angry Bird.  Also spied was George Washington, Abe Lincoln, Thomas Jefferson, Harry Potter, Hermione and Ron.  There was Linguini from “Ratatouille” along with Vector and Minion of “Despicable Me” fame.  Moose and a Moose, and Bumble Bee, plus the real Shep, too.  Lots of other interesting and good-looking stars showed up, with all the above clothing courtesy of the one-and-only Suzie’s “Costume Attic”.  No wonder security was so tight.

The floor was  abuzz with activity.  There’s Blackjack, Poker, Wheels of Fortune.  Bingo, Craps, Roulette and Dice games. Slot Machines, Checkers, Guess the Jelly beans and Fortune-telling too.

Don’t know how to play?  No problem.  Most of the dealers didn’t either.  They made up the rules and did whatever it took to make sure that the customer always wins.

There was cheering and laughing, excitement and amazement.  The crowd stayed on the edge of their seats to learn who had won the 50-50 raffle… it was Luke S of Bunk 29!  Then, the drum roll played in suspense of the announcing who won the Guess the Jelly Beans contest (how many in the jar?), and the winner…. Dae of Bunk 11!  Yes – Dae was awarded all 1,662 colorful beans!

The patrons played to win… and win… and win some more!  And then….

What do you do with a giant wad of Skylemoney?  You go to the gift shop of course.  This pop-up’s packed with imports from faraway lands. Squishy balls and whoopie cushions.  Hacky sacks and wind up teeth.  Yo-yos and sunglasses.  Inflatable footballs, basketballs, soccer balls and baseballs.  Guitars and saxophones too.

9:30 PM and that’s all folks.  See you next year!

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July 4th at the Sky

How do we celebrate the 4th of July at Skylemar?  We start by cleaning up!  It’s GACU – The Great American Cleanup.  Shep calls it “the trifecta of clean”.  First you take a power shower, next head over to The Spa, then it’s on to the Infirmary for a health check.

Where is this Skylemar Spa you might ask?  It’s on the porch of the Garden Cabin.  Mellow music plays, cucumber water is served, and the boys sit in rocking chairs.  Their dirty, yucky feet go in tubs of water and then our warrior “manicurists” attack with nail clippers.  Many thanks to Adam, Rook, Ellie, Karina, Leah, Maya and Sam who went above and beyond to get the job done.

Weather conditions were perfect for every activity on the courts and fields, with low humidity and clear skies.  The wind was strong, which meant that the lake was choppy — perfect for tubing and sailing (and capsizing…).  Meanwhile, the Tigers went on a trip to the Maine Wildlife Park.  It’s a refuge for over 30 species of local wildlife that can’t be returned to their natural habitat.

Dinner was delicious at the Band of Brothers Kickoff: pigs-in-a-blanket, barbecue chicken, corn on the cob, sweet peas and Greek salad.   In addition to a bunk and division, each camper is assigned to a “Band”.  It’s sort of a family within the overall camp family.  Each Band has a few campers from every age group, with two Stars as their Leader.  It’s one of the many ways that kids of all ages get to know each other at Skylemar, and it gives the older guys the chance to serve as role models for those younger.

There are 12 bands: Bears, Owls, Wolves, Deer, Bald Eagles, Otters, Loons, Foxes, Moose, Lobsters, Bats, Dock Spiders.  They officially get together for occasional competitions, Evening Activities and special meals where each Band sits together as a group.

Tonight’s competition was the “Spaghetti Mini Marshmallow Challenge”.  The goal was for each group to build a tower as tall as possible.  Twist was that only the little guys in the Band could do the building, while the older ones did the coaching.  Congratulations to the Loons – 26 inches tall!

After a traditional “7th”, the choice period with about 15 options, we headed down to Trickey Pond for a very special celebration.  Everyone was seated by bunk on either the beach or docks, where we enjoyed Patriotic Popsicles (red, white and blue).  Music played and we all sang along (i.e. “Born in the USA”).  The counselor Belly Flop Contest was hysterical.  Way to go, Preston, for being the champion.

When the sky got dark it was time for Skylemar’s fireworks display.  This spectacular display is shared with all our wonderful neighbors on Trickey Pond.  Many thanks to our good friend and pyrotechnician Greg who lives across the lake.

Nothing like a July 4th miracle!  Ten days ago, during Staff Orientation, a lost black dachshund was first spied at Camp Skylemar.  Since that sighting, the family has come daily, calling his name.  Staff members have been looking across our 200 acres (we never told the kids, of course), but at this point it was assumed the little dog moved on to another location.  With the smells of Skylemar’s chicken grilling and picnic tables with nibbles underneath, the assumption was that if the dog was here, at this point he would have been seen again.  A week has passed with no sign of him.

Then comes the miracle…tonight Sebastian was found underneath the Skylemar Rec Hall!  Program Director Barney and Waterski Director Quinn were the heroes who crawled on all-fours and did whatever it took to rescue the pup.  Goes to show you should never give up!

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Sky Spirit

Let’s take it backwards…

After a day filled with good, hard play, we slowed it down with Spirit Night for Evening Activity.  It’s a weekly time when the camp gathers together on the Rec Hall field for a non-denominational service focused on gratitude, love and appreciation.

Each week a different bunk gets to lead Spirit Night. Tonight, it was Bunk 24.  First, we sing “We Meet Again in Gladness” and then the opening poem is read.  The candle is “lit” (battery operated), and the responsive reading goes like this:

We light this candle in fellowship with our friends.  We light this candle with love for our families.  We light this candle in gratitude for all those who have helped us.  We light this candle in hope of peace, kindness and compassion.  We light this candle to reach out to those in need.  We light this candle for those who are not here now.  We light this candle to see within and brighten our days ahead.”

There’s a Prayer for our Country, and we sing a patriotic song.  This week’s reading by Shep was about the courage of Margaret Bancroft, who was a pioneer in educating those with special needs.  We say a Prayer of Thanks and silently send out positive energy to those we love at home while Cory plays the piano.

Tonight’s “Sermonette” was presented by counselor Eli K. of Bunk 14.  Eli was a Skylemar camper for seven years before becoming a staff member two years ago.  He read a selection of his college essay, which reflected on his experience as a camp counselor.  He inspired us with describing how he never let his medical condition define himself at Skylemar, and encouraged us to face challenges, try something new at camp, push yourself and then push a little farther.  Wow – now that’s a Skylemar counselor.

Next came Nick’s Cool2Care presentation.  Cool2Care (C2C) means that it’s cool to care about yourself, others and the world around you.  It’s cool to want to win, because it’s important to want to do well.  No matter how it turns out, you gotta keep it classy.  Nick explained that in every sport you either win or you learn.  Losing gives you an even bigger opportunity to get better.

Nick read a number of the C2C cards out of the C2C Cooler.  When you notice someone demonstrating kindness, you can write an acknowledgment and leave it in the cooler.  Two campers were awarded the highest weekly honor – the Cool2Care Chain.  Despite the big age difference, both are campers who similarly care about others and go out of their way to make others feel good.  Both Nico PH in Bunk 29 and Ethan P in Bunk 2 truly make our Skylemar world a better place.

Speaking of Cool2Care, remember those red money boxes that were sent home in the spring to collect coins for our favorite charity, “World of Change”?  The director of this children-helping-children nonprofit came to camp with his special “World of Change” truck.  It’s sort of like an old fashioned toll booth on wheels.  The boys tossed in their coins, and soon we’ll find out how much we collected.

Continuing backwards…

Earlier in the day was when we “practiced what we preached”.  Here’s how that went down…

The U10 Steal the Bacon Tournament held here at Skylemar is always one of the most exciting and spirited of the year.  Several camps attend, and there are numerous teams.  Our campers and their coaches practice for this and put their heart and soul into winning.  Despite it all, this was one of those times to learn instead of win.  In true Skylemar form, we kept it classy.  Starting tomorrow we take advantage of the opportunity to get better.  STB 2026 belongs to us!

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Planning Makes Perfect

At Skylemar, it’s rare that someone knows the time of day, let alone the date.  No need for clocks – we go by our stomachs.   If we forget, there’s a bugle for breakfast, lunch and dinner, and a reminder for snack on the way to Third Period.

For the most part, time flies at Skylemar.  But because our “year” equals six weeks, everything is magnified.  So much gets packed into daylight hours that a day basically equals a week, and a week therefore equals a month.

Our calendar is planned far in advance, and each day is meticulously orchestrated by Barney, to the point where every one of our 350 people here know exactly where they should be at any moment of time.  But as happens in the regular world, things come up that we don’t expect.  Therefore, we always need to create the following:  Plan A, Plan B and Plan C.

Here’s an example…The camp had been booked for a 6 PM Seadogs game since the schedule came out in the winter.  Hundreds of tickets were purchased, 7 buses and drivers were reserved, and the entire staff was on duty so that there would be a ratio at the ballpark of one or two boys for every staff member.  That was Plan A.  Things were to go pretty much the same way they had for the past 35 years.

Then on July 4th, the day when the bus company was closed, we find out that the time of the game had been miscommunicated, and it was actually going to be played at 1pm.  Although the Seadogs were apologetic and offered for us to attend on an alternate night, that would mean complications with staffing.  Sticking with the 1pm game also meant we’d need to change the buses, which didn’t seem possible since it was already a holiday weekend. Sherlock Shepherd (aka your camp director) texted with a friend of a friend of a friend, and ultimately got the cell number of the bus dispatcher.  We rearranged buses, changed the daily schedule,  switched around meals, sprayed every child with sunscreen and loaded the buses for the hour drive to Portland.  That was Plan B.

Turns out today was the hottest day so far this season.  There was a breeze at camp, but nothing in the ballpark.  Seats were sweaty, faces were dripping and even the Seadogs announcer reminded the crowd to hydrate.  Although the campers were their joyful selves, Shep could sense sunburns and “the crankies” coming.  It was way too blistering to enjoy a game.  After giving it a four-inning-try (about two hours) which was enough time for the kids to spend their $30 on ballpark food, the decision was made to rally the buses and head back to camp.

Plan C:  Once we were home sweet home, we had to get these guys cooled off.  Amen for Trickey Pond.  We grabbed swimsuits and headed to the lake for quick dips.  The dinner menu was changed to build-your-own Super Subs, with chilled watermelon and orange slices for dessert.

After a long day with our energy zapped,  Evening Activity as planned was postponed.  Instead we did what any good parent would do.  We put on a movie (wink wink).  All will sleep well tonight.

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Home & Away

What’s Murph Monday?  It’s what the brave, strong and dedicated do at 7 AM.   You run a mile, do 100 pull-ups, 200 push-ups, 300 squats and then run another mile.  It’s fine to break up the exercises 5-10-15, and then do that set 20 times.  Wowza.  Congrats to Max P, Asher, Dillon F, Nate F of Bunk 24.  Eli D, Jake P, Ignacio L of Bunk 26, and Iggy, Leopold and Marc T of Bunk 27 and Yago of Bunk 28

As usual, the Clinics Commercials were lots of fun to watch.  The counselors really try hard to put on a show that makes everyone laugh, and hopefully entices campers to sign up for their Clinic.  Today we kicked off:  Long Rope Skiing, Farm-to-Table Skydeck (today they picked basil and tomatoes and made Caprese salad), Wimbledon Tennis, Reading Road Trip (when you read in lots of different places), Props & Scenery for “Finding Nemo”, Football Plays, Splish Splash at the Waterfront, Back2Back Lax Champ U15 Practice, Golf Under Pressure, Intercamp Take Down Baseball, Drop It Like Its Hot (as in things like watermelons. etc. from high up in the Ropes Course), Learn to Sail, Pass-Set-Spike Volleyball, Soccer Shooting, Robin Hood Archery, Cohesive Hoops and Strong Man Conditioning.

Leaving Sky for the day were the Freshmen who went on a day hike.  They headed over to Arethusa Falls in New Hampshire.  It was an uphill trek for 1.5 miles on a very balmy day, but well worth it when you got to the top.  Trip Leader Mitch said the guys were amazing and stayed together as one group the whole time.  No complaints up or down.

Intercamp Tennis here at Sky and Soccer game away. Meanwhile, the first two foursome’s of the year headed to Bridgton Golf & Country Club.

Also “intercamp”, but definitely not a game, was the social with a nearby girls camp for the Seniors.  For the younger guys here, it was Rock Gardening at Chilltop, where they painted a special rock for the garden in front of their cabin.  Way to go, guys!

“I said a boom chicka boom”, goes the favorite Campfire Song!  It was a super great night at the Ring of Champions.  DT’s “Burrito Song” was a huge hit, and Myke did a dramatic reading of a Drake song.  We sang “Country Roads” with Cory on the guitar.  The audience chanted “Aroostisha! Aroostisha!” so counselor Eli had to perform a reprise of last week’s song.  It’s a good one, for sure.  Adventure Man taught us all how to build a shelter with garbage bags.

Bunks 1 & 2 did an adorable skit called “Invisible Bench”.  Sammy J came out, and squatted like he’s sitting.  Ethan said, “Hey, Sammy!  What are you doing?”.  “I’m sitting on an invisible bench.  Come join me!”, Sammy urges, and Ethan squatted next to him.  The rest of them came out one at a time, reciting the same lines, and squatted next to the others.  Alfie followed with the punchline, “They moved that bench last week!”, and all fell down.  That’s our kind of humor!

 

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YEAH!!!

It’s one part Shep, one part all the counselors, one part older kids … and it becomes contagious.  Immediately the rest of the camp catches it.  And that’s how we make it Skylemar….

It’s the vibe!  It’s the cheers and laughter.  It’s that upbeat positive atmosphere that you feel most of all at Skylemar meals.  Yes, our boys are loud.  At meals it’s a happy, feel-good, joyful kind of loud.  There’s the silliness of the little guys and the sarcasm of the Sophomores and in no time everyone’s laughing.

We cheer wildly at post-meal announcements.  It’s the kind where you stand up and maybe even jump up and down.  Like today it was announced, “Laundry’s back!”.  The crowd roared with delight!  Bet you don’t get that at home after you do a load.

The laundry service here is a luxury that would be nice to have year-round.  The boys toss dirty clothes into their Bongo (a popup hamper), because we’ve learned that more clothes end up in the right place if they can “make a basket”, as opposed to opening a draw string laundry bag.

Sunday is outgoing laundry day.  That’s when you empty your Bongo into the specially designed laundry bag, and it gets taken away in a big truck.  Here’s what makes the bag special — you fill it from the top, zipper it up, and on the side there are straps to turn it into a backpack.  But that’s not all….

The truck comes back two days later (today), and your bag awaits on the porch.  Once at your bed, this time you open it with a three-quarter zipper on the long end, like a suitcase.  Inside are your clothes, nicely folded and in perfect piles ready to go in your cubby.  It’s magic!

More great news today:  Arlington and Lance have won the Green Arrow at Archery!  Everyone clapped and cheered.  “He’s in my bunk!”, someone hollered.

Wing Night for dinner!  ” Yeeeeaaah!!!” they roared.  Even the ones who don’t like wings were clapping.

Barnicus and Laundricus came to announce the winners of the Clean 300.  It’s Bunk 11 and Bunk 26!  Yes, Bunk 26 – clean 14-year-old boys!  Definitely something to cheer about!

Now on with the day!

Cubs and Lions went on a trip to Pineland Farms.  They had a barnyard tour, and learned about the animals on a working farm.

Bunk 26 volunteered at the Naples Food Pantry.  They were a huge help carrying cases of food that would be distributed to thirty-some families in need.  The regular workers were very appreciative of the extra hands, and raved about how polite our boys were.  We hope to do this every week.

It was activities as usual at camp, but the humid air felt like a storm was brewing.  And it was.  By afternoon there was thunder and rain, which meant routine safety procedures for staff.  When the weather’s in question, all are called to their cabins with counselors, and Senior Staff are assigned to areas of awareness.  There are always 30+ handheld radios on air at any one time here, so we can easily communicate.  Communication at a time of need is one of the reasons our counselors do have cell phones in the cabin.  Sure, that may mean that they’re texting when they shouldn’t be, but for us, safety takes priority.  Turns out it was just a passing storm, so on to dinner.  Pizza, pasta and salad tonight.

“BESTEST” was the Evening Activity.  Lots of cheering at this one!  It’s a competition by Division.  The MC gave a prompt, and each Division selected volunteers to perform the response.  Here were the prompts:

Show us your “bestest”…

– Impression of a mosquito hitting a windshield

– Impression of a hibachi chef

– Air band performance

– Impression of a fish being caught in Trickey Pond

– Handshake between three members of your team

– Best impression of an argument between a zip tie and a roll of duct tape

Where do they come up with this stuff?

 

Heard this today…

Assistant Director Cory gave 7-year-old Kash a high five at breakfast.  His hand was covered in syrup!

                                …only at Skylemar.

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SGT – Skylemar’s Got Talent

If you really want to know the Skylemar ethos, you just gotta check out the Talent Show.

Tonight’s show included 32 acts!  That meant a total of 57 campers were brave enough to go on stage and perform in front of the entire camp.   Some acts were super impressive and proved that Skylemar really does have talent.  Some…not so much, but lots of fun, nevertheless.

None of the performers seemed the least bit nervous, and they comfortably danced and sang as if in their own living room.  Well…that’s because they were.  It’s just that now they have a couple hundred brothers along.

Every act got cheers, applause and whistles.  The audience was attentive at all the right times and joined in the laughter with those on stage cracking up.  You see at Skylemar when the performers have fun, the audience does too.

Participants of all ages and abilities took the stage, and each act was celebrated for whatever it was.  Take the wide age range of piano players for example.  Alfie is in Bunk 2, Seth F is in Bunk 5, Campbell’s in 13 and Asher’s in 24, and the audience loved them all.

Intrinsic rewards went along with performing.  Plus, there’s a tangible incentive as well.  Everyone who went up on stage got to pick a trinket from The Super Prize Bag… even for a friend who held the microphone too.  Judges named the Top Prize Winners at the end, and all received a very coveted, staff t-shirt.

In addition to the pianists, here’s some of our most talented:

Ethan P (Bunk 2) and Micah (Bunk 6) were the very first singers.  They sang “Waving Through the Window” and were amazing.  Grant (Bunk 16) was impressive singing, “Country Roads”.  Sawyer (Bunk 20) sang an incredible acapella version of “What a Wonderful World”.  Nolan played the ukulele and sang along to “Hey There Delilah”.  Amazing!

Ryan Frumin (Bunk 18) blew us away (no pun intended) on the trumpet.  He played the theme songs to “Jurassic Park” and “Home Alone”.

Lots of magicians in the house.  Best part about card tricks is that they always start with “May I have a volunteer?”.  Hands shot up everywhere with excited ‘Oooh! Oooh!’ and ‘Pick Me! Pick Me!’ echoing all around.  Nice jobs — Hunter (Bunk 17), Luke (Bunk 13), Declan O (Bunk 5), Alex B (Bunk 3), Bash (Bunk 12) and  Grady (Bunk 18).

Talented, or perhaps not so much, included:

  • Max A and Theo R (Bunk 19) drank three cups of water.
  • Skyer (Bunk 6) and Owen B (Bunk 7) did lacrosse tricks, sorta. Other sporting talents — Gabe (Bunk 4) demonstrated how not to play lacrosse. Blaine, Lincoln and Kash (Bunk 3) played basketball with a human hoop.  Ari, Ethan and Henry (Bunk 19) did a baseball skit. Henry, Alexander and Beckett (Bunk 7) did something with soccer.
  • Levi and Chase (Bunk 12) danced, kinda.
  • Lionel (Bunk 14) walked. Said he was practicing for weeks.
  • Twins Jack and Luke (Bunk 4) ran around pulling an imaginary string.
  • Bud (Bunk 14) read an entire book in 7 seconds, with fuzzy dice on his head.
  • Shay (Bunk 8) is double jointed, so he spun his arms 360 degrees.
  • Theo Q and Jonah P (Bunk 6) sang along to “I Bought it on eBay”.
  • Alex and Ulrich (Bunk 13) flipped cups.
  • Brothers Lincoln and Morgan jumped rope and tried to juggle bananas.
  • All of Bunk 24 did some kind of cooking show using Bongo hampers and lacrosse sticks.

Jack M did leg farting.  What’s a Skylemar Talent Show without bodily noises?  Some acts never go out of style!

 

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The Sky Restaurant

There are just two rules when it comes to the food at Skylemar:  1) It has to be delicious; and 2)  You can never ever run out.

With a combined 83 years working here, Head Chef Jr, Superman, Benjamin, Jairo, Julio, Tony, David, Byron, Miguel, Juan and Cesar make up the staff who know exactly how to get it right.  Plus, they know how to keep a kitchen sparkling clean.  Just ask the Health Inspector who visited last week.  “Beautiful”, he said.

After decades of cooking for growing boys, there are a few things we know for sure.  For example, the way it looks, and the texture makes a big difference.  Always keep the sauce separate.  Have plenty of options.  Boys like to know what’s happening next, so Shep tells them the meals the night before. Quality definitely matters.

In fact, there’s lots that we do from a quality standpoint that our “food procurement consultants” say is “crazy” from a cost perspective.  For example, we crack our own eggs (900 for scrambled) and make homemade meatballs from scratch.  And ‘lots’ is what we prepare.  It costs $9,800 per day to feed the Skylemar family, and well worth it too.

We’re excited to share some great news — this year the boys have eaten more vegetables and fruits than ever before.  We’re talking double!  In one afternoon the salad bar alone goes through a treasure chest-sized bin of a spring mix, romaine and iceberg lettuce combo, 110 cucumbers (most popular), 85 tomatoes, plus much more.

The Senior Staff serves the food, which gives 30 of us the chance to see each boy in one of four buffet lines, at least three times a day.  Abby and Bella are in charge of special diets and picky eaters.  They custom make meals for those with dietary restrictions in a way that makes them feel just like anyone else.  They’re also great at coming up with an agreeable option for those with limited “likes”.

There’s definitely something for everyone in the buffet lines.  If you don’t like the main entrée there’s pasta, with sauce and parmesan cheese on the side.  Just about all of our boys like pasta with butter, with many adding some parm.  Only a few take the sauce, notes this pasta-server.  We make 40 pounds as a side dish, and 100 pounds for a full meal.  Bowties, penne and spirals leave spaghetti in the dust….

180 WB&J’s, cut into triangles, get made in a day.  That’s Wow Butters & Jelly, since we do our best to be peanut-free.  Our panel of experts determined that when it came to taste, texture and appearance, Wow Butter beat SunButter hands down.   Plus the name is really fun to say.

Mexican is our most popular category:  tacos, burritos, quesadillas and Skypotle.  Italian comes next, as in pasta, lasagna and pizza.  Asian is third, with chicken lo mein, egg rolls and beef with broccoli the highlights.  Then there’s good old American, with chicken tenders, steak subs and grilled cheese right at the top.

In addition to all the old favorites, newcomers to the menu these past few years are “Bowls”, which are super popular.  There’s Teriyaki, Asian and KFC.  It’s a big black bowl that you fill yourself.  Ingredients for Teriyaki bowls include rice, chicken/steak, edamame, carrots, broccoli, cabbage and wonton crisps.  The Asian bowl has lo mein noodles and broth, plus the add-ons above.  KFC bowls are Thanksgiving dinner (21 turkeys) leftovers – roast turkey, real mashed potatoes and gravy.

Caesar Salad is always a hit, and we go through a huge quantity.  It takes 72 heads.  Here’s the secret recipe to try at home :  Toss romaine in garlic powder — add Ken’s Pepper Parmesan dressing (not Caesar) — toss again — add parmesan cheese — add homemade croutons…. and toss again.

Jr’s grilled chicken is always perfect, every time.  Both kids and adults love it because it’s plain yet flavorful, and never too dry.  First, a chicken breast is cut horizontally… then in half, and pounded just a bit.  It’s marinated overnight in Ken’s Italian. Each piece is grilled just until charred, and then into the warmer it goes (which would be the same as an oven with a pan of water in the bottom) at 100 degrees for 2 hours. This process makes it juuuust right!

MPD (most popular dinner) goes to Wing Night.  They come in two flavors of buffalo: “hot” or “not” —  600 pounds for just one meal.

Lots more secrets to share when it comes to feeding our amazing boys, so you’ll have to stay tuned.  Thank you, Kitchen Staff!

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Future’s Looking Bright

Lots of Intercamp action the last few days.  We hosted an 11U Baseball twin bill and sent teams on the road in 12U Basketball and 13U Soccer.  On the Fred Pierce Field, the 11U group was led by the pitching arms of Morgan, Colin, and southpaw Jonah P.  At the plate, Bradley C was the clear star, smacking a home run over the Freddie Pierce fence into the right center field trees to become maybe the youngest Skylemarian ever to do so – amazing!

In Hoops action, Lance led all scorers and rebounders while Nidal proved to be like a coach on the court, handling the ball and running the offensive show.  Alex B (B13) was shouted out for not only his hustle on the court, but his inspirational team spirit from the sideline.

In Soccer, the 13U squad were led by goal scorers Ignacio L (4 goals),  Sam P  (twice), and Nolan. David G was outstanding in the net delivering back-to-back shutouts  – and the team brought home our first championship trophy of the season!  Congrats to all participants who wear the Red and Gray with such pride, displaying the tradition of Skylemar spirit and sportsmanship no matter the results, and wherever we go!

Meanwhile, several trips have gone out too.  There’s been several successful overnight campouts at Sebago Lake State Park.  The park’s just a few miles away, but it feels like much farther.  There’s a nice campground, bike trails and a shallow beach to splash in.

The Sophomores took a trip to Morse Mountain, a research and conservation area in Phippsburg, Maine.  They hiked four miles!  Every camper had the opportunity to lead the pack and set the pace.  When their turn was done, each got to name a specific way they would try to live the values of Cool2Care when they got home.  Elliot R (Bunk 21) said “I’ll accept that change is a natural way of life”.  Henry Z (Bunk 19) said “I’ll do a better job of going to bed when I’m told”.  Deep stuff!

After the long trek they finally got to their destination.  The ocean… and water that was absolutely freeeeeezing!  Super fun to talk yourself into going in.  The ice cream stop on the way home was the ideal way to end a fantastic day.

The Tigers went to the Ossipee Valley Fair.  It’s a good old-fashioned event, with animal exhibits, oxen-pull, and a frog jumping contest.  Of course… we had to enter, and guess what?  Beckett (Bunk 7) was the champion!  He came home with a blue ribbon.  Some of the boys thought this would be a good activity for camp, but where in the world do you get giant frogs?

At this evening’s Spirit Night, Roshan K and Elijah E were awarded the Cool2Care chains.  Two great guys who take advantage of every opportunity on the fields and courts, while also truly caring for others.

The Sermonette was given by counselor Patrick (aka RPG in Bunk 10).  Patrick, a college football player, talked about the challenges of spraining his ankle a week ago.  He said:

This made me realize something very quickly that I hadn’t thought of before.  When you come to Skylemar, you’re more than just a camper or a staff member.  You’re a part of a family that shows unconditional caring, love and kindness.  This family accepts your weaknesses and strengths, and builds you up and helps you grow not only as an athlete, artist or student, but most importantly, as a person.  We all have the ability to grow and nurture one another so we can all be our best”.   

He ended with a quote that his dad often used: “Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.”  From what we’ve got going on here the future’s looking bright!

 

 

Heard this today…

While getting his feet scrubbed by hard working, brave staff “volunteers” who run The Spa at GACU, Caleb D lays back in his rocking chair and says, “Can I just stay here forever?”

… only at Skylemar.

 

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Polar Bears & That’s Not All!

On a misty Saturday morning at 6 AM, 55 polar bears are spied in Trickey Pond!

Ranging in age from 7 to 10, the giant pack is accompanied across the lake by 42 lifeguards, kayakers and boat drivers.   It’s a half mile swim across, and everyone wears a life jacket just to be safe.  Once on the other side, you end up at Nate and Benny F’s house, which is directly across from Skylemar.  High fives and donuts await, and then the motorboats bring you back to camp in time for breakfast.

Being a Skylemar Polar Bear is a tremendous accomplishment.  We’re grateful for each camper who gives it a try, as well as to the many staff members who sacrifice sleep time so that the kids can succeed.  The older half of camp has their turn to swim across tomorrow.

Throughout the day it was activities as normal, but there was something out of the norm.  For the one and only time this summer the schedule read “Welcome Camp Fernwood” in the 6th period slot.

Here’s the story…

You may have heard the old folk tale about a farmer who complains about his noisy house to a Rabbi.  Rabbi advises bringing chickens inside.  He does it and the house is even more chaotic, so he goes back to the Rabbi.  Rabbi says to bring in a goat, he does it, it’s worse, and again he returns.  Rabbi says to bring in a horse.  Same thing happens and he’s told to bring in a cow.  And on it goes until it’s unbelievably loud and there’s no space left.  What should I do, he asks.

The Rabbi says to now take all the animals out of the house.  He removes each, one by one.  It gets quieter and calmer, and when he’s left with his own children, it’s SO very silent and serene.  He never complained again and lived happily ever after.

This story “checks out”, starting at 5:00 this evening.  Before then we always thought our house was loud.  But afterwards, when the beautiful ladies from Camp Fernwood came over for dinner and a social, our house got a whole lot noisier.

After dinner, we got through “the awkward stage” with the Super Duper Counselor Game Show: Fernwood Edition.   It was our counselors vs theirs, for trivia, hula-hooping and egg toss.   Everyone loved cheering for their own.

Sky II had a beach party with Fernwood’s oldest, while the rest of us hung out on the front lawn.  There was volleyball, badminton, mini golf, pickleball, ladder ball, cornhole and frisbee.  Chilltop was packed with boys and girls, making bracelets and watercolor paintings.  The ladies dominated Karaoke, but everyone sang along.  For some Sky guys this just wasn’t their jam, so they stuck together and tossed a ball as usual.  But others kinda huddled in small packs — and together got the nerve up to talk to a group of girls.  Those with sisters at Fernwood gave our guys the extra boost of confidence.

Towards the end there was some sharing of phone numbers (but they don’t have phones…) and some trading of bracelets.  When they loaded the buses and drove away, we felt like that farmer in the story above.  Skylemar…is now…so…very…quiet.

At least for now!

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Trrrrrryyyying Again!

We’ve talked about Cool2Care, and how it’s the motto we live by at Skylemar.  We try our best to be kind, respectful and care for others.  But here’s the thing.  We’re regular people so we also make mistakes.

There are times when we might say something that offends someone, or we maybe leave a bunkmate out of a game.  We might forget to listen and could even come across disrespectful.  That’s when we apologize, and trrrrrryyyyyy again.

At Skylemar, there are three steps to an apology.  You feel sorry, say you’re sorry and do something to show you’re sorry.  It seems harder to do than it turns out to be, because we’re big on fixing mistakes.

Every time someone digs deep and shares how they’re feeling, it brightens our world.  Take this morning for example.  Peter made a big announcement:  The record has been broken for Polar Bear Swim!  98 bears from the older half of camp swam this morning.  If you add in the staff involved, the total number rose to 150!

When Peter finished congratulating, tennis counselor Ulrich took the microphone.  In front of all, he thanked swim counselor Annabelle for helping him to make it across the lake.  Ulrich, a varsity athlete in college, was brave enough to share with the whole camp that it wasn’t until he got to Skylemar that he learned how to swim.  He made us all feel proud.

It’s Sunday Signups!  New Clinics were advertised today.  Lots of popular favorites, and some combinations that seemed to spark quite a bit of interest.  For example, our Soccer and Baseball staff will run a Skylemar Kick-ball week which sounds like lots of fun.

Chilltop will take their creative energy down to the Sail Dock for Boating and Bracelets.   SkyDeck and Yellowhorn  will join forces for Food Science, a unique way to explore what they’ll eat. On the Tennis courts, the focus will be on footwork, positioning and tracking the ball to better your game.

With a couple of intercamp matches this week, Volleyball will prep both the 13U and 15U squads.  Lacrosse will cater to our younger guys who just love having a stick in their hands.  Kettlebell workouts are on the Strength and Fitness docket, while Track and Field will focus on running (sprints) and throwing (shotput and discus) techniques.

Rumor has it that Robin Hood will make an appearance at Archery.  Shep’s clinic, Skylemari Safari, is a “backlot discovery” of the many behind-the-scenes places that you don’t usually see at camp.  They’ll tour the entire maintenance department, visit the big kitchen, go in attics and basements.  Those who sign up for US Open Golf clinic will shift from the practice tee to plenty of on-course match play.

The Football staff will welcome those who want to learn in game-like situations.  Pistol Pete Hoops is where ball-handling and dribbling under pressure will be the main focus on the Basketball courts.  Down on the Pond, both the Swim and Ski Docks will be as popular as ever.  “Splish Splash Sports” off the Swim Dock will include basketball, volleyball and 3v3 water polo along with plenty of time on the inflatables.  The Ski Dock will be focused on advanced skiers, boarders, and surfers.

The most entertaining commercial was for the Super Awesome Chocolaty Fudge Mega-Coated Specialty Ropes Course Clinic.  Lots of fun in the treetops!  All sorts of options … with  something for everyone!

More Sunday news:  It’s the Intercollegiate Day Kick Off!  The big day is Wednesday, but preparations started after dinner.  It was exciting for campers to find out their college team — either Wisconsin, Tennessee, Michigan or Virginia.   The teams will be competing on the fields, courts, waterfront and stage.  Song practice started this evening, and they already sound amazing.  We can’t wait for the Cardboard Boat Race tomorrow!

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Twists & Turns

Most of the time things are juuuust right… like when our sisters who attend nearby camps come to visit.  The siblings give each other warm hugs, have dinner together, meet friends, play tennis and hang out til it’s time to go.  They’re happy to see each other, then seem equally happy to return to routine at their very own camp.  Perfect.

The 30-minute drive, the one hour hike, and the 1.5 mile trek up Douglas Mountain was ideal for the Cubs and Lions today.  At the top was an observation tower built by the former owner of the land, who donated the property to the town for all to enjoy. The view was spectacular, and you could see as far away as Portland.  They talked about the Latin phrase that was carved into the stone — “Non Sibi Sed Omnibus”.  That means “not for oneself, but for all”.  Now that’s C2C!

Also “just right” is our Stars Division.  This is a group who truly takes advantage of the leadership opportunities offered at Skylemar.  The younger guys look up to them, and the Stars just about always remember the importance of this.

A Meal Minute, which takes place during announcements after a meal, gives any Star who wishes to do so the opportunity to practice public speaking.  The Stars camper writes his own motivational message about something related to camp and presents to all.  Way to go, Palmer and Noah, who both did a fantastic job.

As mentioned before, the older guys also lead their own Band of Brothers, which puts them in charge of 12-14 kids of assorted ages for a special dinner. After the meal they painted flags with their team insignia and played a giant trivia game.   The insignia is also on the bracelet each camper proudly wears.

Now for the twists and turns of the day…

As mentioned yesterday, the Intercollegiate Cardboard Boat Race was supposed to be today.  The oldest guys on each team got together to make a boat out of cardboard, duct tape and trash bags for their college team.  The whole camp was supposed to go down to the lake to watch the Stars “sail” their boats, but 13U and 15U Hoops as well as 11U Soccer were a bit delayed and still competing at another camp.  So the schedule was adjusted to instead do the race right after dinner.

The North Atlantic Wrestling Association Show was to be our evening activity.  A giant ring was set up for this on the Mini Lax Field below the hockey rink, and all were excited to see these pros perform.  There was a 30% chance of rain, but multiple weather apps seemed to guarantee we had a window of time to stay dry right after dinner.  So the Boat Race was again postponed, and we headed straight from the meal to the wrestling ring.

But this time Mother Nature outsmarted the weatherman.  Buckets of water poured from the sky, so back inside we went.  It was disappointing to miss two fun events right after the other, but you know Shep always has a Plan B.

It’s a Tootsie Roll night!   Bunks sit together at their table, and those in Tootsie Roll costumes hand out laminated playing cards to each group.  The game is played like Bingo, with Shep (also dressed as a Tootsie) calling out the cards (i.e. “Nine of hearts!”).  Get three in a row, and you holler “Tootsie Roll” to win.  Prize is…you guessed it.  Even though Tootsies are nowhere near as cool as Sour Patch Kids, tonight they were extra special.  You would think they were playing for gold!

 

              Heard this today…

Walking with several of the Cubs, Lions and Tigers after Strength & Conditioning Clinic, they were discussing braces and palette expanders.  “I’m getting braces,” Keats proudly affirms.  Pointing to his front teeth he innocently asks, “See how these two are social distancing?

… only at Skylemar.

 

Heard this today, too…

While playing “Would You Rather”, the question was asked “Would you rather be royalty or a Rockefeller?”  “What’s a Rockefeller?”, one of them asked.  “I don’t know”, said another.  “Maybe it’s a rock collector”, said the wisest.  (names withheld to protect history teachers).

… only at Skylemar.

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The Right Attitude

If there’s one thing we hope that a boy brings home from Skylemar, it’s an attitude of gratitude.

It starts with the little things, like manners in the buffet lines.  There are typically 10 stations (main course, two sides, two options, pasta, sauce, wow & jelly, salad bar and dessert). As a boy approaches each server, he says “yes, please” or “no thank you” every single time.  Yes, every single time.

Everyone matters most at Skylemar, and we appreciate each person’s contribution to our community.  Shep frequently recognizes those behind the scenes, like the maintenance department and those who work in the very hot kitchen.   One day Fernando, a groundskeeper, was surprised that some kids asked him to play basketball when he was weed-whacking nearby.  Our response:  So did you play?

The natural beauty around camp is something we never take for granted.  Ed and his maintenance department (Marc, Jimmy, Fernando, Mary, Betty, Myron, Vicky, Jonathan, Toppa, Emilio, DJ, Heather and Jeff) take tremendous pride in keeping everything looking and working just right.  Then there’s Kristen, our horticulturist, who puts her heart and soul into every flower and all things Skylemar.  Seeing beauty in every direction definitely has a positive impact on our mood and well-being.

Speaking of well-being…everyone appreciates our nurses and doctors.  Where else besides Skylemar  do you have a talented medical team available to you round the clock, with no appointment necessary?

We cheer for friends and staff members at least a hundred times a day and give public shout-outs after meals.  When someone has the nerve to speak to the whole camp in a meaningful way, they are given a standing ovation.

Take today, for example.  Three meals and three Meal Minutes, thanks to Bode, Eli and Tristan in the Stars Division.  Through their words, they truly demonstrated their attitude of gratitude.

Each spoke about their camp experiences, and what they learned over the years that they wish they had realized in the beginning.  For example, Bode learned that we should advocate for ourselves, that there’s always an appropriate time and a place, that your past does not define you, that it’s a good idea to ask people questions about themselves, and that you don’t always have to be the loud kid who is the center of attention.   The audience appreciated his advice, and gave him a standing O.

Eli talked about his earliest years at Skylemar, and how at first, he didn’t always participate because he was worried about not knowing how to play the game well.  He now knows that you can’t let your fear get the best of you.  He said, “At Skylemar, everyone wants you to play.”  He found that he enjoyed himself much more when he gave it try.  He said, “Don’t fear something new, but instead take it as an opportunity to have more fun.  Who knows – you might really like it”.  The audience appreciated his honesty and guidance, and gave him a standing O.

Tristan, our only camper from France, spoke about how scared he was when he came to Skylemar for the first time.  He was all alone in a country that spoke a different language.  He had to remind himself that he trusted his parents to find the right camp, where he would be well cared for.  He spoke about how grateful he was for every staff member and camper, who patiently answered his questions and made him feel welcome.  We adore Tristan and are grateful that he and his parents took a chance on us.  Standing O!

As for Skylemar parents, these are the ones for which we are most thankful.  We are confident that each of us here have won the lottery by giving us those who love us more than anything imaginable.  Although for some it can be hard to say, we know that each Skylemar camper is grateful to those at home for the opportunity to be here.  Your camp directors thank you to the Sky and back, for sharing with us your most precious possession.

Today we were especially grateful for Nick Shep.  He has spent a tremendous amount of time creating  some exciting new elements to our Intercollegiate Day program.  He kicked off tomorrow’s big day with two newfangled events:  The 5k Relay and the Cardboard Boat Race.  These were the first points-earning opportunities, so the team spirit was evident in both exciting races.

The 5K Race had kids running from the furthest points of our 200 acres, and everywhere in between…a 3.1-mile track meet! Congrats to Noah K who was the first to cross the finish line.  On the pond, the Boat Race was as entertaining as it was competitive, as all 4 state university teams (another first) wildly cheered on their paddlers.  Three of the four collegiate vessels actually made it cleanly across without a piece of the boat, or their “captain”, from falling off!  When it was over, the Volunteers of Tennessee had claimed both events, and will take a lead into the full day/night of activities tomorrow.  More then, stay tuned!

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Intercollegiate Day 2025

Ann Arbor, MI… Knoxville, TN… Madison, WI and Charlottesville, VA – homes to four of the most prestigious state universities in the nation.  Today, all were well-represented in Skylemar’s 78th edition of our Intercollegiate Day.

If the temp for this competitive day had begun to rise with yesterday’s 5K Relay and Boat Races, Mother Nature stepped in to cook us up a bit more.  After the usual morning routine, IC Day Marshall Nick Shep called the Michigan Wolverines, Tennessee Vols, Wisconsin Badgers and Virginia Cavaliers down to the Snow Field for the official start of this time-honored tradition.  Nick explained how the day would work, with each of six Divisions competing in 6 uniquely formatted team events. Only the Dash and the Seniors/Stars Long Drive competition would have a select few individuals represent their schools.  Then, for Evening Activity, each university would take the Skylemar stage to perform a set of Songs & Cheers with the entire day’s results producing the eventual winner of IC Day 2025.

And the Dash started us off in front of a raucous crowd supporting each of their sprinters.  Winners included Wisconsin’s Bodhi, Max R and Max P, while Tennessee’s Lionel and Alex Sw also impressed with blazing runs to the finish line.  In the oldest Division, Nabil (Virginia) ran away from the pack to claim the podium’s top spot as the “fastest man in camp”.

After the Dash, each Division begun a rotation through their 6 activities for the day, with a midday break for lunch.  The morning vibe was electric, with fun-filled excitement at every venue.

In the afternoon, all gathered in front of the Rec Hall only to be “wowed” by the majestic drive that won it by Wisconsin’s Matthew R.  Off to another Songs & Cheers rehearsal (the boys have been practicing for 3 days) and some rest, before attacking the afternoon activities with refreshed energy.  It seemed unlikely on such a hot, steamy day, but the rousing school spirit continued to build for each team as the day went on, and the yelling and cheering, hugs and high fives were non-stop throughout.  Of course, it helped that the 90’ Skyleslide as well as Snow Cones were available to all participants as they moved in and around the various activities all afternoon.  The events were not only competitive, but most importantly as was heard all day, lots of fun.  Here’s a rundown:

The little guys (10U) favorite, Steal the Bacon, contested though in all 6 Divisions.  Clearly, the older guys really miss the game based on their enthusiastic play.  As in all the other contests, each “sport” was bracketed with a semifinal and final to determine the winners.

Blacktop Hoops felt like a Final Four in each Division, with highly competitive basketball action in 4 on 4 and 5 on 5 play.  Buoy Ball, another Skylemar favorite, had the boys competing on the Middle Diamond and Fred Pierce Field, and seemed to generate the most noise as runs were scored with each swing of the (buoy) bat.  There was a Gaga tourney, using both sandpits, and Volleyball too (Newcomb for the youngest group). Finally, World Cup Soccer provided some of the closest, most exciting matches of the day.  Best of all, each and every camper participated in all 6 events – now that’s really something!

When the daytime activities had ended, the score was so close that all 4 teams had a legitimate shot to win it all. Exactly 50% of the scoring remained for tonight’s Songs and Cheers, as everything thus far accounted for the other half.

The counselor team leaders have been writing original songs and cheers since late June when camp began, but that’s only a small part of how much they put into tonight’s performance.  They not only write the songs, but they have to somehow teach the words and tunes to their boys, all with just a few total hours of practice.  It’s a monumental task. The late-night hours of collaboration and creativity leading up to this night seem impossible – yet for 78 years, they get it done!

And they did it again.  Under a beautiful Maine sky, each collegiate team took the outdoor Rec Hall stage to perform five songs: Team Fight Song, Original Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Old Camp Song, and an Original Camp Song.  The performances were a treat for all, and the spectators and entire Skylemar community responded with heartfelt applause and appreciation for what was presented. Each state university represented today would be proud of all the boys for a fantastic competitive atmosphere filled with teamwork, sportsmanship and fun.

And the 2025 Intercollegiate Day winner is …. the University of Tennessee Volunteers!

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The Hardest Job You’ll Ever Love

They say that parenting is the hardest job in the world.  We beg to differ.  Being a Skylemar camp counselor might just be a whole lot more.

You see, becoming a parent is almost always a slow process.  In most cases you have nine months to prepare, and then the rest comes gradually, year after year.  For the most part, parents have a whole lot of time to figure it out.

As for a camp counselor…he had just two weeks to get ready.  Then…BAM!  The kids appear and they’re already seven, or ten or thirteen years old.  Not just one to care for, but WHAMMO… Septuplets!

For a cabin of six, that’s 192 teeth to get brushed morning and night, and way too many times to nag about wearing sunscreen.  There are shoes to find and socks to pick up.  There are beds to make, a floor to sweep and a toilet to clean.  Try doing that with all of your kids in the house.

Sometimes there are tears to dry and poorly timed questions to answer.  A fair share of arguments to settle, especially between “brothers”.  Lots of directions to repeat, and repeat, and repeat.  If only they’d listen, a camp counselor thinks.  Sound familiar?

There’s no privacy for a counselor, no home office to hide in or video to keep the kids occupied.   No master bedroom with the bathroom adjacent.  Just a kid-sized cot for a full-grown man, and bathroom shared by the whole family.

Some counselors are quiet, some are loud.  Some are “chill” (as per the older guys) while some run a “tight ship”.  Some take to the job naturally, while others have more of a learning curve.  Some who grew up with us are experts at all-things Skylemar, while a few might forget that they are now the adults who must do whatever it takes to care for those other than themselves.

No matter the style, we know for sure that each Skylemar counselor truly cares for those under his wing.  Like you, they hurt when he’s sad and worry terribly when something doesn’t seem right.  They call them “my kids” and feel a tremendous sense of pride when one of their own conquers a challenge.

Just like a parent, every once in a while, a counselor loses his cool, or perhaps says something in frustration.  Those are the times that they ask for a “re-do”, and almost always do what it takes to clear the slate and trrrrrryyyyy again.

A counselor learns far more in a summer than any college course could possibly teach.  Not only have they learned about caring for others and what it takes to keep them safe, but they also master the arts of negotiation, self-discipline, strategy and organization.  Take it from us, if you’re looking to hire, these are the finest.

Their shirt says it all.  “Staff For A Summer — Hero For A Lifetime.”  It’s for these heroes we are eternally grateful.  We love them to the Sky and back… and hope you will too.

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The Showstoppers

Despite minor interruptions like trips, intercamp games, power showers and letter writing, the show must go on.  And it sure did!  “Finding Nemo” was a smash hit on the Skylemar stage.

It’s amazing what our magical Drama Director Suzie can make happen in just a few weeks.  Singing, dancing, music, acting, set design, lighting, costumes, learning lines and best of all, lots of fun.  That’s theater, Skylemar-style.

Congratulations to an all-star cast, including Shay, Ethan P, Nolan, Quinn C, Ethan V, Cooper E, Eli D, Jonah P, Jake P, Sawyer, Levi, KJ, Henry Z, Jack G, Noah W, Seth R, Lajuan, Lincoln, Sam S, Kash, and Alfie.  Counselors Ed, Frog, Noah, Wyatt and Ben were great as seagulls too.

The best part of a Skylemar musical is watching how much fun the actors have on stage.  They do an amazing job of learning so much in a very short time.  Well done, everyone.  The audience loved it!

Also on stage tonight was Bunk 19, who led Spirit Night.  Shep read an inspirational story about two-time Olympian gymnast Aly Raisman, whose brother was a Skylemar camper for many years.   Here’s a side note that Shep didn’t share:  When she was in her first Olympics, the Raisman family went along to London, while Skylemar watched on TV.  We were all so proud of our SkySister!  The timing was such that our Final Banquet fell on the same day as Closing Ceremonies.  Despite the celebrations surrounding Aly winning the gold, brother Brett, our camper, really wanted to be back to the US for Final Banquet.  So… Aly’s father did whatever it took to get on the first plane he could with Brett, rented a car and drove for hours, pulled into our parking lot and Brett ran to greet his bunkmates for dinner.  Meanwhile, dad took a well-deserved nap in the car.

Point is, and the one that Shep did talk about, is that a parent’s love for their Skylemar boy is bigger than the biggest of the big.  Tomorrow is Parent Visiting Day, when many get to perform for their parents on the fields, courts and lake.  It’s the opportunity to show love for those who are visiting, and also the opportunity to show love towards those who don’t have visitors.

We look forward to welcoming the greatest parents in the whole wide world to Camp Skylemar.

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The Power of Love

Of course, it made sense.  The most beautiful day of the year was saved for the greatest parents in the world.  There was so much love in the 04055, it was if it overflowed into the bright blue sky.

Boys of all ages leaped into outstretched arms of excited moms and dads.  Little brothers and sisters were lifted into the air.  It was a round of meaningful hugs for all!

Now let’s get to it — time to show off!  There was Hoops and Tennis, Gaga and Hockey… Lax and Soccer, Baseball and Football, too.  On to Trickey Pond for Skiing and Sailing – hurry up, there’s so much to share.  These are my counselors, here are my friends and that’s my bunk.  Let’s go!

Down the hill and now back up.  Whew!  Thank you, hayride.

Lunch at noon gave the chance to finally sloooow down.  Whether you picnicked on a table or on a blanket, enjoying a casual meal together was extra special today.

Still more time to show off in the afternoon, although the pace felt just a bit slower.  Our guys definitely know how to tire out the grownups. The clock struck three at just the right time.  Hugs, see-you-soons, a few tears and then…

IT’S CARNIVAL 2025!

The fields were filled with inflatable obstacle courses, axe throwing (the pretend kind), slides, things to jump in and the always-a-favorite dunking booth.  The chefs invited all into the big kitchen for fried dough, but first you had to dance to get some.

Power showers, 7th period and finally…Movie Night.  The kids love sitting outside together to watch whatever movie’s trending, and the adults love that the kids are sitting.

Thank you to all who made it to Skylemar today.  For those who were unable, rest assured that your son was just fine, and promise he was lavished with love and care as well.

As Shep made his nightly rounds, he found not a tear in the house.  Just a whole lot of absolutely exhausted boys, counselors and a couple of camp directors.

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From Catapults to Cookie Baking

Come as friends.  Leave as brothers.  That’s what it says on the arbor as you enter Camp Skylemar.

Today we welcomed 80 new friends from Maryland, Massachusetts, New York, Connecticut, Oklahoma, Louisiana, Texas, Maine, Colorado, California, Pennsylvania, Georgia, Florida and Washington DC.  Those who traveled especially far came from Venezuela, Austria, Mexico, England, Spain and France.

It feels so very great when everyone finally gets here.  Many thanks to those at home and camp who drove, flew and escorted, and did whatever it took to get the boys safely to Skylemar.

As the drivers arrived, the sky opened up, thunder rumbled and down came sheets of rain.  It was a scramble to get duffel bags inside, and instead of the kids coming to greet, we brought the new friends to the indoor activities.

Program Director Barney scrapped his outdoor plan for the day and instead pulled out a Rainy Day Rotation.  Groups went from one building to the next, with super fun activities in each space.

There was Catapult Building in the Rec Hall.  Once each group created a catapult, there was a contest for whose worked the best — mighty impressive structures!

Lego – the best toy a boy could have, and we have lots of it!  Even the counselors are excited to play with our mountains of pieces.

Lots to choose from at Board Games in the Pavilion, Garden Cabin and Batcave.  All the classics – Monopoly, Life, Trouble, Uno.  Each year we get the new ones too, but these stand the test of time.

What’s not to like about Cookie Baking?  Best part is you get to eat them too.

The Lodge was a fun place to hang.  Here there are pool tables, ping pong, foosball and darts.  Dodge Ball in the Gym was also a blast.

By 8pm the rain had stopped, but it was too damp for an outdoor campfire.  So we had one indoors.  Too warm for the fireplace, but Cory had a better idea.  While all the campers sat in Crazy Creek chairs and watched, she sprinkled Fritos (which Adventure Man taught us made for a decent firestarter) on top of some counselors.  Then a fire-breathing dragon took a great big breath and “lit” the flames.  Turns out it was a human fire, made of Ky, Andy and Rook, dressed in orange, yellow and red.

We sang “60’s Party” with Cory, which is an opening tradition.  Then came the best part.  Bunk 25 did a synchronized swimming routine.  They entered wearing bathing suits, goggles and rain jackets.  Off came the jackets and they “dove” into the blue tarp “pool”.  Arms up, fan to the side. Feet up, big kicks. More swan dives.  But the funniest part was the noises they made as they “swam” the wood floor.  Let’s just say they did anything for a laugh, and that they received.

Back by popular demand, counselor Eli K led us in the “Aroostasha” song. It was great to see everyone, even the guys who just got here, laughing, singing and doing the hand motions.

George, Barney and DT added a SNL-type skit called “Session One Update”.  Then Nick led the Cool2Care segment, where the guys of Bunk 30 talked about the Cool2Care moments that stuck with them.  For example, Eli said that during a baseball game a younger camper struck out three times.  He was crushed.  One of the oldest guys, who wasn’t even on either team, walked up and said, “You didn’t give up… that’s what matters”.   Max said, “It’s not always big, dramatic stuff.  Sometimes Cool2Care is just a high five, a saved seat, or a look that says, ‘You’re not alone’.  We all have the chance to live it every day.  Be the reason someone feels included.  Be the reason someone smiles.  Be Cool2Care”.

The all-camp song was a fantastic version of “Let It Be”, with Cory on the piano.  As we sang, the positive energy vibrated in the sturdy walls of our beloved Rec Hall.  It was a safe, warm feeling of community tonight.

There were lots more at the Campfire, likes s’mores of course.  Adventure Man came, showing all of his gadgets.  He taught how to go down an incline when you don’t want to fall.  Instead of going sideways, dig your heals in and go ahead.

Can’t wait for tomorrow.  Heard that the sun will be shining!

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Like Singing in the Shower

One of the best parts of Skylemar being just for boys is that it’s old-t-shirt, worn-in leather-couch comfortable.   It’s all so easy – just be kind, be eager to play and smile.  That’s really all it takes.  Of course we play to win, but when the game doesn’t go your way,’ you know you can get back at it tomorrow.

It’s a boy’s world here — the food (lots of it), the sports (shirts optional on a hot day), the movies (Minecraft), the songs (loud) and the bodily noises that get them all laughing.  Best of all, nerves seem to disappear when you’re part of a skit or a show or even just speaking in front of the group.  At Skylemar, you can let your guard down and be yourself.

You see it in the counselors for sure.  Those who were more reserved the first few days of staff training now feel totally at home and are willing to do just about anything to make the kids smile and laugh.  Take tonight’s Super Spectacular Staff Talent Show.  Most of the acts were the kind of things we all do when we’re in the car or shower singing along with the radio, feeling like our voices sound pretty darn good.  There were skits, songs, raps, dances and sports tricks.  Sam O showed how strong he was by lifting campers.  Jayden sang so incredibly that we felt like we were at a live concert.  And those guys in colorful costumes and crazy hair who worked the audience singing “Let It Go”…you just had to be there.

The counselors brought this same kind of positive energy to Sunday Signups Even Though It’s Monday. A full slate of Clinic activities for the coming week were “advertised” today by their practitioners (AKA Counselor/Staff who specialize in each).  Each commercial is an effort to entice the campers to choose their activity for the week, many with great creativity and humor.

Here’s the rundown of the choices:

The Ski Dock will host a “2nd Session Refresher” for those that just arrived, while the Sail Dock’s “Americas Cup” will focus on jibing and tacking skills.  In between the docks, The Swim crew will hold a Lifeguarding clinic, and of course, offer lots of fun on the inflatables.

“MB Dox and Rocks” will bring Chilltop (Arts and Crafts) to the Ropes and Challenge course for climbing the Wall, hunting for rocks, then painting them.  Archery will find campers “Hunting Big Game” on the course in the woods beyond the targets.

There’s Baseball “Face Off”, a focus on pitching and hitting, and our Volleyball squad will work with our most interested diggers and setters.  The Football staff entertained us with some awesome touchdown celebrations, perfect for  getting to work on your own in “Catching TDs and Making Big Plays”.  Lacrosse for those wanting to join the formidable “Legends of SkyLax” will target shooting, defense and goalie play.  With netminders in mind, “Goalie Wars” sounds like a blast on the Hockey rink.

Over at Sky 2, Fishing will have anglers casting at SkyPines.  Strength and Conditioning in the Gym continues to work on proper form, working with kettle bells as  they move to techniques in dead lift and bench press. Sprinting and Hurdling in Track and Field fill the rest of the fitness offerings this week.

Hoops has “All Star Challenge – Beat the Professor”, where all who sign up will test their skills in ball handling and shooting — with a chance for prizes in both 3-point shooting and dribbling contests against their coaches.  “Everything Soccer” needs no explanation and remains a popular choice.

Shep’s Reading clinic will rediscover the works of Dr. Seuss, an all-time favorite!  SkyDeck will go “Around the World” to teach a bit of cooking and sampling from all over, limited to the Tigers division (bunks 7-12) only this week.

Golf will again focus on the fundamentals of the swing, with plenty of chipping and putting on and around the green.  Finally, the Tennis courts on both sides will be full of those prepping for the last Intercamp matches, and our own Camp Championships.

Hardest part is choosing!

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Message From The Heart

Grandma, Mimi, Ga and Honey.  Grandpa, Poppy, HaHa, Pap Pap.

Ducky, Kiki, Pi, and Gigi.  Abuelo, Fubby, Pep and Big Daddy.

Grandy, Cucu, Bubbie, Yia Yia.  Grumpy, Papa, Cat Grandpa, Papou.

Lolli, Gigi, Suggie, Grammy.  Pop, PeePa, Ollie, Gdaddy.

Po Po and Ghong Ghong, Nona and Nono.

Didu and Dudu, NiNi and YeYe.

Malu and Juan Papa, Halmoni and Harabouji.

We call them by assorted names, but for Camp Skylemar, grandparents are our MVP’s.  After all, none of our remarkable boys could have been invented without them.  These extraordinary role models are our superheroes, advisors and cheerleaders, who love our boys forever and always.

Ask anyone here about grandparents, and their face softens with a special warm glow.   Ask the Cubs and Lions questions about them, and your heart might just melt.

 

Question:  What does your grandmother do all day?

Favorite Answers:

“She shops.”

“She goes to restaurants.”

“She does something in Florida.”

“She’s a therapist.  She makes people talk.”

“She hangs with her friends and plays Bridge.”

“She does plants.”

Question:  How about your grandfather… what does he do?

Most Frequent Answer:  “He golfs.”

Cutest Answer:                 “He eats.”

Most Honest Answer:     “He naps.”

 

They share that Grandmothers “cook really good.”  But it’s when they spill the beans on Granddad that we see the twinkle in their eye.  “He talks to me about sports”,  “he lets me watch TV”, “he taught me how to gamble” and “he always sneaks me candy.”

When asked, “What do you like best about your grandparents?”, several said “they let me have sleepovers”.  One said, “they never yell” and another said, “they’re always proud of me.”   A few said, “they let me stay up late.”  But most importantly, many kept it simple and said what matters most: “They love me.”

So favorite Nanny’s and Pop Pop’s,  Mom Mom’s and Grand PaPa’s or whatever you’re called, please know that we’re grateful.

Whether you’re nearby or as far away as heaven, we ask for your blessings.  Please watch over us always, and know that we love you to the Sky and back.

 

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Sky Power

Almost in a league with the Navy Seals are Skylemar’s special forces.  40-strong, this elite group of master minds are able to inspire and motivate, plan and execute, organize and lead.  Frankly, they leave many of our warriors in the dust.

They are the SkyWomen.

On one hand, they are sugar and spice and everything nice.  Each is truly beautiful, inside and out, and the boys and staff adore them.  On the other hand, they command respect and are of the highest integrity.  They understand the rewards of doing for others, and demonstrate compassion, dedication and a get-it-done attitude.  As we like to say… they “get it”.

Each is a specialist in a particular area (like Waterfront, Chilltop, Basketball, Volleyball, etc.), but also has a clear understanding of doing whatever it takes to make the Skylemar machine work. MVL’s (most valuable ladies) often work behind the scenes (like in the office, bus driving, or housekeeping), with the intent of making others look better.  Let’s just say that this is the squad we count on to make the magic happen.

Honestly, it takes a certain type of girl to work at an all-boys camp, and it’s not for everyone.  We get five female applicants for every one male, so it’s tough to get a job at Skylemar.  Having brothers at home does give you a bit of a “leg up.”  When we ask, “how do you feel about burping and farting?”, their reaction gives us a clue.  Laugh and you’re good to go forward.  Come across as uncomfortable with the question, then a boys’ world just isn’t for you.

They juggle their specialty with NBC (non-bunk counselor) duties, like putting the kids to bed, helping them clean, sitting with them during meals, and so forth.  They’re extra good at noticing the little things about each camper — like who wore the same shirt two days in a row, or who might feel a little left out.

Most importantly, they truly love each Skylemar boy.   They give these guys the most valuable gift – their time.  Together they play games, read, talk, laugh, solve problems and celebrate successes.    They are the greatest big sisters and summer moms that anyone could ever ask for.

They take care of your sons (as well as their camp director) in the most incredible ways, and figure out ways for each to succeed and be proud of himself.  There is one thing we know for sure…no camp in the country could ever be as lucky as Skylemar.

Like the biggest star in the Sky, our world shines brightly, thanks to Lillie, Paige, Mary Beth, Abby, Suzie, Rachel, Lexie, Holly, Kristen, Sam, Margie, Luci, Cory, Leslie, Maya, Calais, Ava E and G, Roxy, Leah, Karina, Cassidy, Bella, Hannah, Lauren, Annabelle, Kate, Mindy, Ami, Marianne, Nadine, Brooke, Betty, Mary, Vicky, Joni, Serena, Heather, DJ and Toppa.

These gals are the greatest!

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Dog Days

 

To be a dog at Camp Skylemar is a pretty sweet gig.  Plenty of pets, pats and belly rubs from the boys.  And if you get the opportunity to be in the Pavilion after a meal, there’s a plethora of scraps to find under the picnic tables.  Trickey Pond’s great too.  It may be extra hot wearing a permanent fur coat, but nothing feels better than a doggie-paddle on a steamy day.

The little Cavalier Spaniels are the oldest, and they like to be held.  That’s Cubbie, named for the closet we keep our clothes in, and Trix, named so because “Trix are for kids”.  Moose is the well-behaved Newfoundland, and Moxie is the one that’s not so much.  She’s a 140-pound puppy, now in her “teenager” phase.

Summit is the blue-eyed Siberian Husky, who would run to NY if let off the leash.  Finn is the joyous Golden Retriever, who seems to always be smiling.  Ruby, who belongs to Lexie and Mitch, is an obedient Golden Doodle, who spends much of her time at the lake.  Mello’s another perfect little pooch, who’s a therapy dog for the Infirmary.

And then there’s Slugger, the ultimate camp dog.  He’s the Frenchie who thinks he’s a camper.  You see, Slugger absolutely positively loves balls.

Tennis balls, lacrosse balls, volley balls, soccer balls.  If it’s round and it rolls then he loves it, surprisingly far more than a piece of cheese or any dog treat.  Even just a picture of a ball gets him excited.

Slugger’s happy to ruin a lacrosse game or interrupt a basketball game.  Put him on the court at the end of a tennis period and it’s like a kid in a candy store.  He overflows with happiness – there’s just so many balls to pick from!

This brings us to today, when we faced a challenge… and Slugger had the solution.

Tennis Director Ted complained as he does every year that many of his balls have “disappeared”.  He knew exactly where they were…  in the cabins, in the woods and on the paths – wherever a boy tossing a ball could end up leaving them.  And here was the solution….

During Rest Hour, bunkmates collected balls and wrote their cabin number on each.  The more balls you collected the more chances your bunk had to win.  At 3:15, the whole camp came to the Bunkline Field, tennis balls in hands.  Slugger was waiting.

On the count of three, everyone threw their balls at the same time, and Slugger was elated!  Whichever numbered ball Slugger ultimately grabbed and brought back to the crowd would be the cabin to win an ice cream party.  Lucky Bunk 24 was written on the one Slugger picked… and lucky Ted – he now has 300 more balls back in his hopper!

In the post-game wrap-up we did hear some stories about creative strategies. Our favorite was the guys who gobbled up some beef jerky so that they could roll their tennis balls in the jerky crumbs.  Was that you Bunk 24?

Another super fun all-camp game played today was the Super Duper Game Show for Evening Activity.   It was Divisions playing against each other, answering trivia questions and performing stunts.  Questions that we were surprised players knew the answer to included:  Which country went to every single World Cup?  Brazil.  What country has won the most winter Olympics?  Norway.

The stunts were the really fun part.  Counselors from each Division got to do marshmallow catching and the Oreo-on-your-forehead-and-into-your-mouth stunt.  Another one involved turning your counselor into a mummy with toilet paper.  The very best came last.  One brave counselor and two campers from each division came to the stage and were given a can of shaving cream.  The task was to use the shaving cream to give your counselor a new hairdo in under two minutes.  Special thanks to counselors Ava E, AJ, Cozmo, Brock, Chase and Zac.  This proves that you truly will do anything and everything for the boys of Skylemar.

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Trip Season

So many comings and goings.  It’s trip season!

Beach Day for the Freshmen!  But first, some community service.  They volunteered for an environmental nonprofit called Friends of Casco Bay and were assigned to pick up trash at Riverbank Park.  Once the work was done, they headed to Crescent Beach State Park for relaxing on the sand and splashing in the very cold ocean.  Next it was on to the movie theater for “Jurassic World”.  A few who took a pass on the movie instead had a card game marathon with Blake.  New for this year is the Portland Hearts of Pine professional soccer team, so the group caught a game at Fitzpatrick Stadium.  Lots of fun to root for the home team, especially at such an awesome venue.

The Lions headed to Portland for lobster fishing.  They loved wearing the heavy bibs that the lobstermen use and actually got to pull a trap… and throw one in as well.   Lots of interesting lobster facts such as — Did you know the ones we eat are at least seven years old?  The traps have an opening for lobsters to come in and out of, until they reach the size that they can’t fit through the hole.  So over the years the lobsters think it’s a good place to get free food, till that one day when they get too big and that’s all folks.   Once the Lions returned to shore,  they cooled down in an air-conditioned movie theater for the new version of “How to Train a Dragon”.  Then they met up with the Freshmen at the soccer game just long enough to grab some pizza and watch a half.  These guys were exhausted.

The Tigers went to Bates College and saw what it was like to be a college athlete for the day.  They played a full flag football game on Garcelon Field in the center of campus.  Lunch was at The Commons, which Princeton Review considers to be one of the top college cafeterias in the country.  Our guys thought it was the best because you could put lots of different kinds of soda into one cup.  Funny part for the staff was that there was a psychology conference going on, so our sweaty boys got to mingle with the professors.  Then on to the movie theater to see “The Smurfs”.  No need to see that one again….

The Acadia Trip was an overnight, which departed long before breakfast.  The Juniors reported that the 2.5 hour drive was well worth the ride.  As they drove to the Fort Knox historic sight, they had a powerful discussion about rural America and got to see a wide variety of ways that people live.  Once at Acadia State Park, they headed to Sand Beach for a giant Junior cold plunge.  There were rocks to climb and shells to find.  Counselor Leo is a marine science major, so he taught the group a bit about marine life.  They even got to see a seal.

Back at the campground, it was chicken quesadillas for dinner.  During the campfire, each camper took a turn speaking about who they aspire to be like and why.  Quite a few said mom or dad.  Dion Sanders and LeBron James were mentioned too.  In the morning, they hiked Beech Mountain and took in the spectacular ocean views.  They too stopped at the movies on the way back.  The new “Superman” gets excellent reviews from the Skylemar critics.

Half day trips have been lots of fun too.  The Cubs went blueberry picking at Goss Berry Farm.  These berries actually grew on tall bushes, sort of like small trees that were bigger than the kids.  They were proud to bring back 65 fresh-picked boxes for the entire camp to enjoy.  Blueberries, yogurt and granola are now the most popular part of breakfast.

Some of the Stars had a special afternoon at Camp Sunshine.  That’s a camp for terminally ill children and their families, where we have the honor of volunteering.  Our guys played with their little ones, and helped with craft projects.  Very impactful.

And finally…congrats to Miles B, Oliver G, Elliott SR, Palmer, Ryder K, Jack L who traveled to the Chess Intercamp Tournament.  Elliott SR made it to the semi-finals!

Speaking of trips…Bunk 27 learned how to change a tire today.  And Bunk 9 learned how to distill water.  You just never know!

 

Heard this today…

After lobster fishing, eating an ice cream cone and spilling something at dinner, a certain Cub refused to change out of his shirt and put on pajamas at bedtime.  “But my mother always lets me sleep in my dirty clothes”, he explained.

… only at Skylemar.

And this…

A camper in Bunk 27 (which means there are 8 possible teenagers) comes into the office and says, “I need the thing that covers my mattress.”

“You mean a sheet?” Cory asks.

“Yeah,” he replies.  “I think that’s what it’s called.  It’s the thing with the four corners and one of them always pops off.”

… only at Skylemar.

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C2C

A friend texted today asking “Is Cool2Care still a Camp Skylemar thing?”  You betcha.  We refer to these three words every day.  We have it on our bracelets, wear it on our t-shirts and feel it in our hearts.

It’s not just something that we say… It’s something that we do.

We might not talk about it in every Blog, but you can feel it in what we write.  You can see it in the photos – kids genuinely caring about each other.  You’ll often see the C2C hand symbol: the thumb, pointer and pinky up, which means “I love you” in American Sign Language.  For us, it’s as natural as a peace sign or thumbs up.

In case you missed what it’s about, here’s a refresher.  C2C means that it’s cool to want to win and play your very hardest. When you do win, it’s not cool to over-react.  Instead, you need to remember what it feels like to be on the other end.  It’s the little things that matter, like giving a hand to someone who falls, no matter what team he’s on.  That shows that you care.

It’s cool to participate and be a part of it all.  Doesn’t matter if you’re good at it or not, or even if you don’t like a game.  When you participate it makes it more fun not just for you, but for everyone else.

It’s cool to care about your friends here as well as your family at home.  On a bigger level, it’s cool to care about the world around you, and do your best at keeping things tidy and not create waste.

Not sure if we use the term as a verb or an adjective, because sometimes they’ll say “that’s not cool to care” if someone’s rude.  For the most part, what we do is try our best to “live the motto”.

Take a look at our Stars, the oldest campers.  Today’s Meal Minutes were delivered by Diego V and Jack L.  They demonstrated that it’s cool to care for those campers younger than themselves and talked about how proud they are to now be a role model.  They thanked those who helped them over the years at camp and reminded all to be someone people can look up to.

For this week’s Cool2Care Chains, here’s what was said about each recipient:

Sometimes it’s the smallest folks that make the biggest impact.  This kid does the right thing consistently, whether someone is looking or not.  He’s kind, fun, warm, listens well and is wise beyond his years.          Paul M (Bunk 2)

This kid always has a smile and positive attitude.  He was incredible at the basketball intercamp the other day, showing outstanding sportsmanship, encouraging his teammates, being respectful to refs and congratulating opponents after the games, win or lose.  He competes hard and loves even harder.                      Matthew M (Bunk 18).

Speaking of respecting the refs, today’s POW for Bunk 17 was all about them.  POW stands for Person of Wisdom, and basically, it’s a class in something practical that boys need to know.  For example, yesterday’s POW was about changing a tire.  Soon they will learn to parallel park a golf cart too.

Now back to the refs:  Bunk 17’s POW was all about how to be a referee.  Athletic Director Mitch is very involved with refereeing in Wisconsin, and he taught the guys about how the job is a lot harder than it looks.  Our hope is that through experiences like this one, we’ll all be more respectful to referees when we get home.  After all, there is no game without a ref.

The Blow-up Carnival this evening was the opportunity for everyone to participate, and they did.  It was like a giant party on Hejduk Field. There was the Mega Obstacle Challenge, the Triple Threat Course, Toxic Lava Run, Dual Sports Bungee Challenge, Gladiator Joust, Sports Arena and Disco Dome — and great music too.

Best of all, there were snowballs, Baltimore-style.  That means the ground ice goes in a cup, your choice of flavor (yes, you can have some of each) and marshmallow cream on top.

Blow-up Carnival is a shoes-off event.  When you get to the field you leave your shoes in front of the sign that says your Division name.  That way you know exactly where you left them when it’s time to go.  Like we said, it’s those little things that show that you care which matter so very much.

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Band of Brothers (and sisters too!)

It was tough to figure out the weather today.  It was hot until it wasn’t.  Then it rained until it didn’t.    Although we made it through morning activities, by lunch it was a Rainy Day Schedule.  There were Lodge Games, Dodge Ball in the Gym, Lego, Cupcake Decorating, Sushi Making and Board Games.  Meanwhile, the Freshmen went Ice Skating and the Sophomores took a trip to Mt. Cranmore in New Hampshire.

And then… the sisters arrived for dinner.  Brothers were in assorted indoor places around camp, so we needed to do a round-up.  Once gathered, they had a cookout dinner inside, and then it was dry enough to head to the Lodge to hang out.

For the rest of us, it was a Band of Brothers dinner.  Kids of assorted ages sat as a “BOB”, with the Seniors and Stars doing an amazing job of helping those younger feel comfortable.  These occasional gatherings in Band of Brothers groups definitely support getting to know each other.  The Tin Foil Boat Building Contest was super fun too.  Each BOB got an 8” square of foil, and the idea was to turn it into a boat that would float and hold as many coins as possible.  The winning boat held 40 quarters!

On another note, it’s the last week for Clinics of 2025! At Sunday Signups it’s clear what’s on the mind of many as Color War prep dominated the sports offerings. Golf and Tennis will hone the swings a bit more and offer match playing tips in advance of both Camp Tourney and Color War matches.  Football and Basketball will both work on game-type situations as they get ready for Red & Gray contests to come.

Those choosing the Waterfront have plenty of options. The Sail Dock includes the full complement of paddle choices besides the sailboats, while the Ski Dock will see many on the long rope looking to sharpen their runs for Color War.  The “Trifecta” on the Swim Dock: 1) Catching thrown balls while leaping off the inflatables; 2) Olympic Time Trials to prep for the races ahead; and 3) Trickey Pond Records for those wanting a shot at breaking them. All will get plenty of action.  Let’s not forget Fishing on Trickey over at SkyPines, where the season-long contest for which bunk catches the most fish nears the finish.

Lacrosse will focus on the little things that go into being a great team player – ground balls, hustle and other “unsung” things necessary for team success.  Soccer will work on footwork and ball control in “El Futbol”. Baseball will play with every ball we have here, except a baseball or softball (i.e., lax balls, tennis balls, beach balls, volleyballs, etc.) in games of fun! And Archery will find those wanting a last chance to shoot before their score really counts in Color War.

Rafiki stopped by to see how many Chilltoppers would like to work with Props, Scenery and Stage Crew on our 2nd session production of “The Lion King”.  “Who Let the Dogs Out” will have a different resident canine visit with this group at Shep’s Reading clinic every day, while Yellowhorn’s  “Old Favorites” will have the boys reprising their favorite (exploding) experiments of the season.

Track & Field will look to set new records in running, hurdling and shotput. The first camp “Strong Man Combine” will be held in the Strength & Conditioning clinic.  And Ziplining with Zippy and the Ropes course crew will give everyone plenty of opportunities to fly through the trees.

By 7 PM this evening we needed a switcheroo on Evening Activity due to the rain.  We pulled down the big screen and had an old-fashioned movie night inside the Rec Hall.   It’s the perfect place to be on a damp one like tonight.

 

Heard this today…

While waiting their turn for showers, Bunk 3 was coloring with highlighters at Arleen’s desk.

Arleen:  That’s really nice.  What’s it a picture of?

Blaine:  I do abstract.

Arleen:  What’s abstract?

Blaine:  It means you don’t know what it is.

… only at Skylemar.

And this…

One of the Lions had a remote appointment with a very prominent doctor in NYC, who is difficult to get an appointment with.

When told what time to be ready, the Lion said, “He’s just going to have to wait.  I have basketball.”

… only at Skylemar.

 

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Come As Friends, Leave As Brothers

As you walk thru the archway at the Skylemar office, a sign hangs that says, “Come as friends, leave as brothers.”   That truly is the way it is here.

Sure, there are those you find annoying or frustrating.  And perhaps there are some who you prefer over others.  Yes, there are times when someone says something they shouldn’t.  One may be insensitive, and another might struggle with letting a comment roll off their back.

But when you get down to it, as summer brothers, we do care about each other.  When someone hurts or feels sad, we feel it too.  As Jack L said in his Meal Minute, someone is always watching out for you at Skylemar.  Could be a little guy looking up to someone older, or a counselor watching over their campers.  Could be a nurse tending to cuts and bruises, or a chef making sure all are well fed.  Could be our maintenance director fixing the screen that a ball magically went through, or maybe a dog greeting you warmly.

One of the warmest and most welcoming places at Skylemar is the Waterfront.  Peter Solomon, the world’s greatest Waterfront Director, is also one of those hard-to-find people who’s the whole package:  he’s kind, brilliant, sensitive, caring, fun and supportive.  Along with his fabulous assistants Lexie, Paige and Quinn, Peter supervises and trains a staff of 20+.  Everyone working at Trickey Pond has been Lifeguard certified, and they do whatever it takes to make being in the water safe, fun and empowering.

Some kids come to camp already comfortable in the water.  But others may be timid or don’t know how to swim.  Rarely does anyone know how to sail or ski before getting to Skylemar for the first time.   The staff knows that Skylemar is the perfect place to learn, no matter your level.  In fact, the main reason we wear life jackets while playing is so that everyone can have fun on the inflatables, not just the strong swimmers.

The Waterfront Staff feels great when the kids feel great.  They get in the water with the boys, patiently explain and come up with creative plans to make things interesting.  Whether someone is a beginner or advanced, the staff at Trickey Pond shares the pride when a boy does well.

Tonight’s Viking Pine Cone Auction was Bunk pride all the way.  When our Viking leader (Shep in costume) raised his sword, everyone ran across the Golf Course and gathered colored eggs.  The eggs became the medium of exchange for each bunk to go home with a prize.  Up for auction were t-shirts, indoor and outdoor games (like a glow-in-the-dark basketball and Monster ping pong), gift certificates (breakfast burrito making with Cory) and assorted snacks.  Each bunk went home with something special.

As we sang “Taps” tonight, as we do regularly, we thought about so many who we love and are fortunate to have watching over us.  Through ups and downs, ins and outs, at camp or home, there’s one thing we know for sure.  We are blessed.

 

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The Magical Waters

When we need to turn a day around, it’s down the hill we go to Trickey Pond.  Jump on in, and you’ll feel the magic.  There’s something about these waters that seems to wash away the blues.

About two miles long and a half mile across, Trickey Pond is our Skylemar gem.  It’s a lake that’s referred to as a “pond” because sunlight penetrates to the bottom.  Trickey is considered to be one of the clearest and cleanest bodies of water in the entire state that has over 6,000.  The center is 55’ deep, and you can see clearly down to the last ten.

Fed by underground springs, the water is naturally filtered.  In addition, Skylemar has a filtration system of our own, because Trickey Pond water is what we drink every day.  Interestingly, in blindfold taste tests against bottled water (Poland Springs, Aquafina, Deer Park, etc.), what comes from our lake is the #1 favorite.

Why is Trickey Pond so pristine?  In large part, it’s because of us.  Since Skylemar’s woods cover most of one side, there are no homes and roads to pollute the lake.  There are some homes across, and they are some of the most wonderful neighbors.  It’s a solid community, and we’re proud to support the Trickey Pond Environmental Protection Association.

We do our share to protect the lake environmentally.  You may have noticed that big green bushes have replaced the sand at the shoreline, to help with catching any pollutants from our dirt road.  Our maintenance department has installed “rubber raisers” which divert water from the road into the woods and culverts.  It’s fun to watch how they do their job after a big rainstorm.

Temps today were in the 90’s, so Trickey Pond was the place to be.  But since we have 350 people here, we couldn’t all go at the same time.  Sooooo…. we set up our many hoses and gave it a go!  It’s A Wacky Water Afternoon Rotation!

Hoses, sprinklers and baby pools.  The giant SkySlide.  Water balloons for H2O Baseball.  Bubble making too.  There’s a “car wash” that you get inside, and best of all, there’s a plunging pool for ice baths.

The best way to make a boy happy is to squirt him with the hose… or with permission, let him pour water over his counselor’s head.  We have orange buckets for that.  It’s interesting how boys like to be just a little bit daring.  That’s where the ice bath comes in.  Can you sit in it?  Can you dunk?  How about with a fresh bag of ice thrown in?

Treat of the day was a Baltimore Lemon Stick — take half a lemon and put a peppermint stick in the middle.  The peppermint is used like a straw for pulling up the juice.  It’s a lovely combo and perfect for a hot summer day.

SkyPotle for dinner (fan favorite) and Campfire for Evening Activity.  There’s nothing better than to see everyone up on their feet performing whatever actions go with the songs or laughing hysterically as they watch a skit.  We loved the “Moose Song” and DT’s  Repeat-after-me “Burrito” classic.  We sang along to “Wagon Wheel” and are amazed when the guys chain-up and sway, shoulder to shoulder.  No one asks them to do this.  It just kinda happens.

“Day is done, gone the sun”, and we’re ready to bring on a joyful day tomorrow.

 

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Glad To Be Back

The trips are back to home sweet home.  After a very rustic couple of days, the camp cots and bathrooms in our bunks are something to appreciate!

The Seniors just returned from Carter Notch in the White Mountain National Forest.  It was a very difficult four-mile hike up the mountain, at a very steep incline.   A new leader was assigned during every stretch of trail.  When it was time for a rest, that camper shared what they believe makes a good leader.  Interesting stuff!

Sure, along the way some complained.  But in the end, each hiker felt a sense of accomplishment and we bet they’re glad they did it.

It was especially cool when they got to the top and found a beautiful pond.  Now that was a real cold plunge… Brrrrrrr!  There were rocks to climb, as well as a naturalist, who explained how the rock formations came about.

Also at the top was the AMC Hut where they’d be staying.  It’s like a super rustic cabin with wooden bunk beds, a mattress, blanket and kitchen.  The “Croo”, a group of 4-5 who runs the hut and does the cooking, carry all of their supplies in every week.  Our meal was enchiladas, magic bars for dessert and the best lemonade the kids ever had.

After dinner, it was board-game time.  There were other guests there besides Skylemar (sorry, folks), and we were proud when they commented about how respectful our boys were.

No morning reveille at the hut.  Instead we woke to a fiddle!  Breakfast was served at 6:30 — bacon, eggs and pumpkin bread.  There are no trash cans at the top of Carter Notch.  Any bit of paper waste goes in your backpack to throw away at the bottom.

The Sophomores went to Mt. Cranmore, also in the White Mountains.  We took the easy way up…chairlift!  Coming back down was lots of fun on the Mountain Coaster, which was like a little car on a track.  You could control how fast or slow you went.

The boys stayed at Franconia Notch State Park Campground.  After setting up the tents in teams, Ethan V and Ari F helped the staff cook what Leo V said was “the greatest burger I ever had”.  Afterward, all enjoyed a campfire, smores and a cozy sleeping-bag night.

Breakfast was bacon, egg and cheese sandwiches, which fueled us up for their own four-mile hike to Lonesome Lake… and yet another awesome cold plunge!

The staff of the Cranmore Mountain Resort said we were “the greatest camp group that ever came through”.

Many of the Stars Division have returned to the United States!  They were in Quebec City for a few days and had an amazing time.  What’s especially unique about Quebec is that because it’s French, you really feel like you’re in a European country.  There were numerous sights to see, foods to sample, jerseys to buy.   Skylemar’s been taking this trip for 77 years!

It was really a wonderful cookout dinner here at Skylemar, with everyone back where they belong.  Evening Activity was the Final Talent Show.  We had to have it inside the Rec Hall on the Gerhard Stage, because it was raining hard at this point.  It was a solid show, but with far more silliness than talent.  For example, Brothers Lincoln M and Morgan chugged water.  Hunter S chugged too.  They’re ready for college.  Jacob W screamed. Imanzi twisted his fingers.  Bud did hula hooping.  There was quite a variety of skits, jokes, songs, sports, dances (sort of, although not really sure what they were doing) and general silliness.  They love to use a microphone.  And they love to be on stage, with everyone laughing with them.

Nevertheless, there was some real talent in the show.  Feddie and Billy were incredible with diabolo yoyos.  Seth F and David G played the piano.  Seth R impressed by reciting Pi.  No matter what, those on stage had a great time.  You could see it in their faces!

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Elections 2025

Today was the day.  For many, it’s the most important one of the summer.  For some… the year.  And for two… their lives.

The boys have talked about today since they arrived at camp.  In fact, they’ve chanted a countdown for the past 10 days.  Yesterday they cheered wildly, hollering “ONE MORE DAY!  ONE MORE DAY!”

The traditional Sky II Lobster Lunch helped to calm nerves.  It’s a meal of camaraderie, with lots of laughter and good vibes.  Over many summers, these now 15-year-olds have come to accept, understand and admire each other.  We can even think of a few who asked not to be in a bunk with this person or that, only to see now that they are very good friends.

It was a beautiful, Maine-like afternoon, with clear skies and comfortably warm temps.  Perfect for casual play, taking some ski runs and hanging with friends.  Dinner was delish — spaghetti and meatballs, marinara or alfredo, Caesar salad and garlic bread.  Eat big, guys… could be a long night ahead.

IT’S COLOR WAR ELECTIONS 2025!

Evening Activity couldn’t come soon enough.  The whole camp gathered together in the Rec Hall, the building that stands strong and tall, protecting our Skylemar family.  Wearing their favorite jersey, each member of the Stars Division sat proudly on the stage.

Shep welcomed all, and explained how Color War Elections is one of Skylemar’s oldest traditions, whereby the participants choose their leaders.  “You, the campers, will vote for two of these great guys by secret ballot, each one being the kind of person that we hope you will be like one day.”

He explained that the spirit of Red and Gray began with our founders and is based on friendship and fair play.  Color War is a unique situation, because this time you’re competing with all of your heart against people who you care about.  That doesn’t happen too often in life.

Skylemar’s competition happens only on the fields, courts, lake and stage, but not in the cabin.  There will be a winner of each and every game, as well as an overall winner of our 5-day Color War.  Whether you win or lose, Shep reminds that you must not over-react.  Don’t gloat, and don’t ruin someone else’s fun — sincerely shake hands after the game.

The Captains will be selecting their teams in secrecy on Saturday night.  It’s done by draft, which is what makes the teams fair in each Division.  It could be that brothers are separated, or that bunks are not at all equally divided.  The Captains strategically select each boy, with one goal in mind – winning.

Shep asked all former Captains to step forward.  A few did so.  Then Shep asked for all those who were on the ballot but did not become Captain to step forward.  In this category there were many.

The candidates were each introduced, and truth is, we love them all.  Each would be an outstanding choice for Captain.

Simple majority wins.  When one candidate gets one more than half of the eligible voters, than he is elected.  The magic number is 100.

Those on the ballot cast their own votes and then headed to the Garden Cabin to wait it out.  Each Bunk came up to the foot of the stage, and every camper wrote down two names on a piece of paper — then dropped their votes into the ballot box (white pickle bucket, circa 1994).  Once all the votes were in, Shep read off every one as Nick kept the tally.

The exact number of votes each person received is something we don’t talk about.  But what’s interesting about this year is that there was a much wider spread of votes throughout the Stars Division than in any previous year we can remember.  It took two full rounds of voting to elect two Captains, proving that there really were several great choices.

The vote tally grew and grew for the first Captain, the crowd started jumping, hands rose in the air…  and it’s… NOAH KLEHR!  The crowd mobbed him as he comes through the door.

After a second round of voting and reading off names (meaning that by now it’s 10 PM), the crowd again rushed to the door to welcome the second Captain… MAX BAUM!

Coin flips determined who chose color, as well as the order of picking Stars Lieutenants.  Max selected Gray, along with Cosme and Jacob R to stand with him.  Noah picked Carson and Jack L. to do so for Red.

Camp Skylemar, these are your leaders for Color War 2025!

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COLOR WAR DAY 1

It was like the first day of camp.  By 6 AM kids were up and out of the cabin, sharing which team they were on.  “I’m on Red!”…“I’m on Gray!”  Excitement was in the air everywhere!  And what a beautiful, bright sunny Maine day it was!

But first, our annual Red and Gray Buffet for breakfast.  What a spread! Just what’s needed to boost their energy for an exciting day ahead.  After the usual morning routine (inspection, etc.), the PA blared, “Red Team to the Mailhouse! Gray Team to the Pine Grove!”

Both teams gathered for their first of several “psych up” meetings that they’ll have throughout the week.  That’s when the teams link up and encircle their Captains and Stars leaders.  It’s a fever pitch – think loud music, lots of chanting and cheering, with the oldest guys yelling messages of maximum effort and team unity at decibel levels unheard of ‘til now.

Everyone to the Fred Pierce Field for the official opening of Color War 2025!

Both teams watched the first inning of the Stars Softball game, the traditional start of every Skylemar Color War since 1948.  After Shep brought the Captains to the field for some last minute instructions, the Gray team took the field as Shep bellowed “Play ball!”.  The honor of the ceremonial first pitch was given to Paige, our do-it-all Waterfront specialist, who threw a perfect strike!  After the 1st inning, each Division moved to their specific venue for their morning contests.

The Gray Stars got the juices flowing early though. Not only did Luke S jump on the first pitch he saw with a blast into the right field trees in the bottom of the first, he followed up with a grand slam in the 3rd giving Gray a 5-run lead.  But Red battled back within a run, before leaving the bases loaded in their final at bat to succumb 7-6.

The Seniors were down at Trickey Pond where the Red team swam, kayaked and skied just a little faster than Gray to win the Waterfront point.  In Juniors Soccer over at Sky II’s Hejduk Field, goalies David G and Orlando were stellar in the nets before Max P slipped a shot by late in a very tight, well-played game for a 1-0 Gray win.

Over on the links, Sophomore Golfers displayed some real talent in splitting their matches, while in the Bocce Theatre, Gray dominated in the first of 7 matches to come.  The Tigers split a pair of games (and the point) in Football. Mac (R) and Leo (G) both had a “pick 6” on the Bunkline field won by Gray, while Shay led the charge for Red on the Rec Hall gridiron.

The Freshmen also split a pair of B-ball games on the hoops courts and left it up to those at the Gym in Game 3 to decide it.  On the upper court, Pablo and Spencer were a tough tandem for Red, although Owen S put up a heroic effort in defeat.  Grady A and Mason answered by leading Gray to a victory on the lower court.  But over at Sky II, Bud dominated to win the Basketball point for Red.

But the most exciting contest this morning was down at the Hockey rink, where our littlest guys, as they seem to every year, provided our most thrilling finish.  And it took three games to settle it.  Ari B and Billy G scored in a 2-0 win for Red in the first game of a triple-header, then Porter tallied a hat-trick to lead Gray to a 4-0 Game 2 victory.  By the time Game 3 began, all other morning contests were complete, so most of the participants from all over camp had converged to the rink to watch our youngest group battle it out for the Cubs/Lions Hockey point.  After a scoreless 1st period, Red’s Junior scored in the 2nd to take a slim lead to the 3rd.  But 6 goals later — another by Junior and a pair by Alex B for Red, not to mention 3 late tallies by Gray – and Red barely held on for an edge-of-your-seat 4-3 win.   In a wild celebration, the Red supporters heaped all kinds of love on their youngest teammates, and took a ½ point lead into the Pavilion for lunch.

After the meal and rest hour, the teams again gathered for pre-game “psych up” meetings, freshly rejuvenated to go at it again.  Back and forth all afternoon, all over camp they went.  As you will see, this one looks to be as evenly matched as ever.

This time, the little guys headed to the Waterfront where Gray won the Swim and Boating elements to carry the point.  The Juniors went back to the Hejduk, where Red bounced back from their tough loss in Soccer this morning to win 13-8 behind the division’s top laxer, Brooks.

The Red then picked up a ½ point in the Bocce Garden, but Gray Seniors won Golf at the Links.  On the Tennis courts, Tennis Director Ted witnessed the most exciting finish of his decade+ of Color War action.  After the Freshmen split 3 singles and doubles matches on both surfaces (hardcourts and clay), the Skills competition on the Har-Tru at Sky II would settle it.  The final tally was so close, Ted had to check and double check his score sheet, confirming Gray’s 127-124 win in a contest of strokes and accuracy. Wow!

Gray Tigers also won Baseball on the Freddie Pierce, 6-1 behind the pitching and hitting of Morgan.    The Sophomores split a doubleheader at the Hockey rink.  Red won 4-0 in Game 1, but Gray returned the favor with a shutout of their own, 2-0 in the 2nd behind a pair of goals by Myles F to split Sophs Hockey.

The Stars then lit up the scoreboard, although Red was unstoppable in an 80-56 rout.  Carson found himself in the middle of 8 total TDs (passing, running and a “pick 6” to boot).  What an offensive show!

This War is already shaping up to be a good one, as only a point separates the teams after a full day of activity on the fields, courts, and Pond.  Tonight’s Ping Pong competition, with another point up for grabs, will tell us who, if either team, will sleep on the lead.

And apparently, it’s neither – Red won Ping Pong and after Day 1, we’re all tied up!

 

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COLOR WAR DAY 2

It’s not like we hadn’t generated enough heat on our own yesterday, but Mother Nature brought us a bit more today.  The boys awoke to another glorious morning to set us up for Day 2, with the score all knotted up.  Same routine today… breakfast, inspection, and a quick team meeting to put their game faces on.  Then off they went from Trickey to the Hejduk and everywhere in between.

The Tigers played a pair of closely contested Hockey games in the Rink, but both went Gray’s way. In the first, Gray scored a pair in the first period, then locked down the rest of the way to hold on for a 2-1 victory.  In the other, Robbie scored the game-winner with just under a minute left to win it.  However, Red answered by winning two of the three Hoops games to win the Cubs/Lions Basketball.  Micah, Jonah and Theo Q were the scoring leaders in Red’s pair of wins.

In Sophomores Football, Dash led Red to a most exciting back and forth victory on the Rec Hall field, overcoming a spectacular TD catch by Gray’s Theo R late in the game that put the outcome in doubt. Ethan V then caught a 4th and goal TD pass with less than a minute to go to seal it for Red.  Red Stars also swept the singles matches and carried the Skills competition which put another point on their side of the ledger.  And further, they overcame a strong performance by Gray swimmers with wins in the Ski and Kayak elements to carry Juniors Waterfront.

Over at the Hejduk, Gray dominated the first of two Lax games 8-1, led by James K, Matthew and Solomon. In the best finish of the morning, Red’s Sam E saved the day, coming out of nowhere with an incredible sliding stick check on the crease with a second to go, preventing a certain tying goal and holding on for a one-goal victory, and splitting Freshmen Lacrosse.  Down on the Freddie Pierce, Coop went deep over the right field fence to provide the early lead, while Thomas T made a couple of sliding catches in left field to protect It for Gray in their 9-4 Seniors win to close the morning activities.

Lots of elusive runs, great catches, incredible shots, tight races, spectacular plays, and close finishes have highlighted the action so far … and we’re only a day and half in.  Time for some nourishment and a good rest as the boys broke for lunch with Red now ahead.

This afternoon was more of the same.  Red extended the lead further with a 3-0 win by their Stars on Sky II’s Hejduk Soccer pitch. On the Sky I lacrosse field, Gray responded by winning the first Cubs/Lions Lax game, 7-5 behind the outstanding midfield play of Larkin and Lockett. But Red mitigated the loss with a win of their own in Game 2, to spit the point.

Red again surged ahead by winning another Waterfront meet, this time by their Tigers strokers and boaters.  But Gray responded convincingly by winning both Hoops games on the upper and lower courts.  Sam P and Nate F had it going and led all scorers in the wins.

Gray inched a little closer when they blew out Red in a hitting onslaught on the Freddie Pierce in Sophomore Baseball.  Then results came in from the Bunkline Field where Joaquin ran and passed his way all over the field in a 56-30 rout in Seniors Football for Red.

The most excitement of the day was down on the Snow Field.  The Freshmen went toe-to-toe in a double-dip of amazing nail-biting Soccer games.  In the first, there were 5 lead changes in a very well-played contest, filled with fantastic team play from both sides.  In the end, Gray scored with seconds to play to tie it up 4-all, leaving today’s last point on the shoulders of the Game 2 Freshmen participants.  With all other games finished and everyone on the hill overlooking this venue, the stadium atmosphere was electric.  The tension grew as no one could find the back of the net well into the second half.  With only two minutes left, Gray finally broke through a disheartened Red squad and their highlight-reel goalie Declan C who had kept them in it.  A wild celebration ensued, and some of the exuberant Gray onlookers had to be cleared from the field.  Then, with about a minute left, Red scored the equalizer, which not only tied it up but set off its own Red on-field explosion.  It was the Red celebrants that now had to be cleared just as Gray had a minute before … and alas, this one also ended in a tie, halving Freshmen Soccer.  What a finish!

Movie night under the stars, maybe the most picturesque, moonlit night of the summer was a perfect antidote for a most exhilarating, spirited action-packed day.  Red will sleep on the lead, but has Gray nipping at their heels.  Still just a couple of points separate the teams.

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COLOR WAR DAY 3

Somehow the weather broke overnight, and we all woke up to an overcast, sweatshirt kind of morning.  The  boys went through the typical routine and team meetings but were anxious to get going again.  And that they did.

Gray was hoping the late Red surge yesterday had cooled off as well and seemed determined to make their push for the lead.  When Gray cruised through the Cubs/Lions Golf matches, they were off to the start they were looking for.  But Red won the little guys’ Bocce in the Garden, before their Juniors won Tennis, reminding Gray that it wouldn’t be an easy climb to the top.

In Tigers Basketball, it took 3 games to settle it, but again, Red was up to the task winning  2 of the 3, and the Hoops point.  Dylan S scored 7 straight points to lead Gray to victory on the upper court, while Lincoln V carried Red to a win on the lower court.  In a very close contest in the Gym, Maddox was the difference in a 2-point victory for Red in the clincher.

On the Hejduk, Red had just a bit too much for Gray to handle in their 7-3 win in Stars Lacrosse.  Will A chipped in with a pair of goals for the winners, while Lucas had a pair of his own for Gray in defeat.  The tide then turned when word came that Gray had swept all three elements at the Waterfront, including the closest set of Kayak races in history.  Both the single and double kayak races produced an overall time differential of only .74 seconds, completing Gray’s sweep down at Trickey.

The Freshmen split a pair of Football games.  Spencer O was the Red Star on the Bunkline,  weaving his way all over the field when running it, and found Ka’Mari often and open when he needed to throw it. On the Rec Hall field, Gray’s defense was the story, stopping Red on the doorstep a couple of times late in the game to win it.

Gray then polished off a two-game sweep in Seniors Hockey at the Rink to hang close. Luke BR did the damage for Gray in Game 2 after TI (2 goals), Oscar and Reed (1 each) hit the back of the net in a 4-2 win in Game 1.  No real change to the slim Red lead this morning as all headed to lunch, another Songs and Cheers practice, and a brief “rest hour”.

As the sun came out and the temperature climbed this afternoon, we wondered which team would heat up as well. Our answer came quickly as the Red Cubs/Tigers stroked their way to victory on both the Sky I and II Tennis courts, then swept both games in Sophomores Basketball and Juniors Hockey.  Ethan K was stellar in the cage and Braden scored both goals in the Game 1 shutout.

After Red also carried Stars Waterfront, Gray needed a boost to fight their way back – and got it!  The Gray Freshmen swept both Golf and Bocce as their Seniors were dominating in Lacrosse at the same time.  Ryder N scored 3 first quarter goals to set the tone in the 11-2 romp for Gray.

Down on the Snow Field, the crowd had grown as the other contests were complete, leaving only the 2nd game of the Tigers Soccer twin bill  left to be played… and what a game it was!  Red had won the first game earlier in a blowout, but the atmosphere for this one felt like the World Cup final. The teams traded goals back and forth, until it was all tied up at 5 late in the 2nd half.  When Owen B scored to give Gray the lead with about a minute remaining, it appeared Gray would get the win and needed split to keep them within arm’s length of the lead.  But with only seconds remaining, Alex Y volleyed home a loose ball in the box off a corner kick as the final whistle blew, securing a 6-6 tie and preserving the Soccer point for Red. The Red contingent stormed the field in another frenzied celebration — and had bumped their lead just a little bit more.

We’re just past the halfway point with plenty of athletic events to go, not to mention the critical Songs and Cheers competition (8 points up for grabs) tomorrow night.  It’s still way too close to call….

But tonight, Color War gets put on the backburner for some good, old-fashioned entertainment — the Skylemar Players presentation of “The Lion King”.

Once again, Suzie, her assistant directors Roxy and Jayden, the incredible cast and crew, blew us away with a fabulous production.  How did they ever learn the lines, songs and choreography while trips and Color War were going on? A full show in just a little over two weeks!

The costumes, the scenery, lighting, music – all to make the kids on stage shine.  Plus it was so much fun to watch.  Many said this was the best play they ever saw at Skylemar.  Bravo to these stars:

KJ & Alexander P – Rafiki

Ari F – Mufasa

Henry Z – Sarabi

Palmer – Zazu

Jake P – Scar

Garrett – Baby Simba

Declan O, Alexander D, Bud – Simba

Ethan V, Max A – Nala

Sawyer – Timon

Elton – Pumbaa

Morgan M, Mason W, Fede, Leo, Henry B, Dylan S, Owen B, Luis, Quinn C, Lincoln M, Liel, Troy, Keats, Alfie, Michael L, Noah W, Levi W, James P, Blaine  were the elephants, giraffes, birds, antelope, zebras, lions, hyenas and wildebeest.  They can dance too!

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COLOR WAR DAY 4

Yesterday’s action had separated the teams a bit for the first time since we began this Color War.  Red had taken command and were oozing with confidence.  Gray wasn’t going down without a fight and had taken a few runs at the lead.  But each time they got close enough, Red was able to respond.  This day would go a long way to determine the outcome, especially with the most impactful night of Color War, Songs & Cheers looming.  The boys had been rehearsing for days, but tonight’s performance could give one team the momentum it needs going into tomorrow’s finish.

But first, there was another full day of activity to report.  Gray might be scrambling to recover tonight if they couldn’t dent the lead, and Red could really put the pressure on….Here’s what happened:

Gray made another move early by winning two of the closest Cubs/Lions Football games we’ve seen.  A couple of last minute interceptions by the defense closed it out on both fields as Gray escaped last minute drives that would have won both for Red.  Again, Red kept Gray at bay with another win down at the Pond in Freshmen Waterfront.  They followed that up with a win in Sophomores Tennis, and it began to look like a tough day for Gray.

In Junior Softball, though, Gray poured it on, scoring in all but one inning in a rout on the Fred Pierce diamond.  Then, they surprised everyone by holding the heavily favored Red squad scoreless in a very well-played, but defensive 0-0 Seniors Soccer tilt over on the Hejduk.  Gray further swept both Stars Golf and Bunkline Bocce (a new venue for this one) to get back in it.

However, once again Red withstood Gray’s comeback attempt with a frantic one of their own in Tigers Lacrosse, erasing a 2-goal deficit with 5 minutes left to win 3-2, and keep Red in control as all headed to lunch.

Teetering a bit from the Lax comeback that closed the morning, Gray still looked refreshed as Captain Max and his Stars leaders encouraged their boys to dig a little bit deeper as they hit the fields and courts this afternoon. Red Captain Noah urged his boys to keep the pressure on and not let up.  Gray would sure keep coming and more than capable of turning it around.

Quickly, the Gray Cubs/Lions sparked a fire by winning the first of two Soccer games on the Snow Field handily,  only to see Red respond with a dominating performance in the 2nd to halve the point.  Red then followed it up with a win in Tigers Tennis that went down to the last match.  Gray Sophomores bounced back and  won a nail-biting Lacrosse game at Sky II.  Ari F was the savior, stopping a one-on-one shot from the crease as time expired to protect the 1-goal win.

Two fantastic, thrilling finishes in Seniors Basketball finally gave Gray the spark it needed,  On the lower courts, Red was down 6 late, but made back-to-back 3’s to tie it at 27, leaving the upper court  to decide the point.  The game was tight from the opening tap, with neither team able to build more than a 4-point cushion.  A put-back shot with 14 seconds left gave Gray a 1-point lead before Archie saved the game with a last second, spectacular blocked shot at the buzzer to preserve the win, 33-32 for Gray.

At the Rink, the teams seemed as evenly matched as the final score in the first game of a double header in Stars Hockey, and tied 3-3 – again leaving it up to the Game 2 winner to settle it.  Matt N and Jackson each lit the lamp twice for their respective teams. After Jacob R  scored 4 times in the 2nd  one to lead his team to a  6-3 win, Gray was now roiling.  Over on the Links, Gray continued its surge by quickly dispatching Red in the Juniors Golf matches, then swept both games in Bocce to draw within a point of the lead.

In Freshmen Baseball, when Hunter knocked a two-out, two-strike pitch into centerfield with a man aboard in the top of the last inning to knot the score at 1, it appeared Gray was poised to finally draw even. But Red rallied for a run in the bottom half that would win it and keep Red ahead.

Gray was more than back in it though, sitting just a couple of points off the lead, with a chance in tonight’s Songs & Cheers competition to grab it.  Each team would perform 6 “songs”: a Team and Camp Cheer (1/2 point each), Team Fight Song and Old Camp Song (1 point each), an Original Camp Song (2 points) and a Production Number (worth 3 very big points) – a total of 8 points that will surely give one team the momentum it needs to go for the gold tomorrow.

Under another sensational, Maine moonlit sky, the boys put their collective hearts and souls into every note, lifting their performances way above any level they had shown in rehearsals.  One of the more amazing, repetitive features of every Color War is how both teams seem to miraculously put it all together on the Rec Hall stage, whether inside or outdoors, when the pressure is on.  And tonight was no different.

With so much on the line, Gray has come all the way back, winning the night 6-2 and seizing the lead.  What a turnaround!   We can’t wait for tomorrow’s finish… a last morning of athletic contests followed by the ultimate closer – TUGS of WAR!

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COLOR WAR DAY 5

Last night’s Songs & Cheers results sure flipped this Color War upside down.  Red had taken 3 ½ days to build a lead, then in one afternoon Gray not only came storming back but did enough last night to wake up with the lead.  There was a nervous energy in the air and once again Mother Nature set us up with another picture-perfect day. The significance of this morning’s activities cannot be overlooked.  Red looked to close the gap while Gray hoped to extend the lead, as both teams anxiously awaited this afternoon’s finish – our TUGS OF WAR.

Gray’s momentum carried over.  Their Stars captured the Basketball point in a pair of wild finishes.  The lower court game ended when Gray’s Jackson faced a pair of must-make free throws after being fouled, down 2 points with a second left on the clock.  He calmly sank both, putting the Stars Hoops point on the upper court’s result.  Gray came back late in the 4th quarter to win and take Stars Basketball.  They followed with a sweep of 2 Freshmen Hockey games in the Rink.

Red was reeling when word of Gray’s sweep in Tigers Golf and Bocce came in, followed by their victory in Seniors Tennis.  It was looking like the rout was on, but then Red responded with a big win in Sophomores Soccer over on the Hejduk.  That left it up to the little guys to once again provide the most exciting, and for Red, the most important contest thus far.  They held on for an edge-of-your seat, 1-0 win in Cubs/Lions Baseball.  Off to lunch where Shep announced that Gray had won the all-camp Archery point as well.  Their morning success had put them in the catbird seat, as all headed back to their cabins for an extended “rest hour” …. in preparation for TUGS that would settle it all.

What a week we’ve had … and it would all come down to this.  Gray Team gathered at the Hockey court, Red Team at the Tennis courts for their last “psych up” meetings.  The noise reverberated all around camp and was heard by the huge crowd that had collected down at the Snow Field, a perfect arena for this, the traditional closing event of Color War.

When the teams marched down to the field, the atmosphere was already electric with the intensity built since Elections last Friday night. Shep called the two Captains together, then explained the process to the entire camp.  It would take 2 out of 3 TUGS in each Division to win the points (2) for each.  Gray’s hot streak coming in had them needing to win only 2 Divisions, while Red needed 6, a seemingly monumental task.  One by one, Shep called each Division’s “Tuggers to the Rope”. Once set, George blew the whistle and…“PULL!”

Each boy wants this win more than anything in the world.  He PULLS with every single ounce of strength.  Faces clench, contort, they yell – whatever it takes. Just PULL.  Muscles bulge…it’s as if they’d burst.  PULL!  Referee George carefully watches till one flag crosses the line and his WHISTLE BLOWS!  The winners leap into the air, screaming with joy.  The losers…slowly walk to the side lines.

Red reached down deeper than anyone thought they could.  In an incredible sequence of 2nd round tugs (after losing the first time through),  Red went from the brink of elimination to within a tug of gaining a virtual tie before heading to Round 3 (4 of the 7 Divisions would need a 3rd Tug to decide it).  Finally, it took 15 actual tugs to get it done … and GRAY is the winner of Color War 2025!

The Gray team cheered wildly, leaping into each other’s arms!  Lots of hearty hugs and high fives all around… the greatest feeling of their entire lives!  Until…they turned and saw their Red friends devastated.  Some on Red were hugging, but it’s a different kind of hug.  Some were crying, and some were face down on the ground feeling destroyed inside.  Gray friends found Red friends and offered a hand or an arm around the shoulder.

The oldest and the strongest lifted the Captains on their shoulders, and the Captains embraced.  This signified the ties that bind.  We are a Skylemar brotherhood.

This one will be remembered for the triumphant class with which Gray won, and the valiant display of heart and inner strength shown by Red in defeat. We’re so proud of the sportsmanship showed by both teams and for doing it the Skylemar way.

The Captains were carried down to Trickey Pond, with all the campers following.  Once on each side of the dock, Noah, Max and their Stars Lieutenants jumped into the water.  They swam to each other in the center, embraced and then it was everyone else’s turns.  Groups of three, four, five and six linked arms and leaped in with gusto!

That’s when the magical waters did their thing.  Trickey Pond washed away the competition, and again we are one.

After dinner and a 7th period of activities, the sun sets, and the evening becomes very special.  Tonight is the culminating event which is loved by generations…Waterfront Ceremony.  The Captains led the torch-lit silent procession, adding each cabin of boys to the long line which snaked down the hill.  A bonfire roared on the lake, as we sat under the pines.  Skylemar songs were sung from out on the Pontoon, which set the warm and comfortable mood.  Captain Noah, Captain Max and Shep each spoke about gratitude.  Shep urged all to consider it a responsibility to share the Cool2Care message far beyond the hallowed grounds of Skylemar.

Now for the extra special part:  Each bunk was brought to the water’s edge for Wishing Boats.  It’s a block of wood with a candle on top.  Our legend holds that if you put the boat in the water and make a wish for someone other than yourself, that wish just might come true.

Seeing all the boats with flickering lights was a sight to behold.  There were hundreds of positive wishes for those other than ourselves.  And that’s how a kid changes the world.

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The Season Ends

It’s Appreciation Day at Skylemar.  It’s the last day of the season to really soak up how lucky we are.

Activities were extra playful and fun, with the counselors participating instead of their usual coaching.  There was enough happiness here to last for a very long time.

In between sports, plaque-making, showers (which included removing a whole lot of Red & Gray eyeblack) and cabin cleaning, many stopped at the Appreciation Station.  That’s where you write notes of gratitude to anyone at camp.  The simple letters are especially loved by staff members, who get them in the mail from us in the fall.

The Final Banquet was one to remember — lots of awards, speeches, delicious food, and best of all…Retrospect.  That’s the end-of-season show that’s produced by alum Bruce Finkelstein and his staff of 7 photographers and videographers.  It’s shown on a jumbotron-sized screen, and the energy of the audience cheering throughout is amazing.  You’ll get a link to watch at home, but honestly, that won’t compare to seeing it live.  It’s like going to a movie theater with 200 friends, and you know every single person, place and happening on the big screen.

As the Banquet ends very late into the night, there’s a whole lot of crying.  Big, strong man-sized tears, which come along with knowing that friends will be separated for some time.  It’s impossible not to cry when you see them link arms and sing “Skylemar You’ll Linger” just one last time until next year.

These are truly the greatest guys in the whole wide world.  Thank you for sharing your amazing son with us this summer.

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The Bittersweet Day

As the saying goes, a picture is worth a thousand words.

Knowing that you’re there to shower him with love makes this very tough day at Skylemar a whole lot easier.

We know you’ll take good care of him.  After all, he is the greatest guy in the whole wide world.

See you next year!  Same place each night, same late hours….

 

 

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